Originally posted by inimalist
it doesn't really take neuroscience. I would almost argue that, from neuroscience, these differences don't exist naturally (though, I'm not that extreme). It is far more about socialization and what culture's expectation of boys are.
Yes, I'm aware that it is almost entirely environment. This is why I commented on the extreme passive parents that I see that would seem to produce un-aggressive boys.
Originally posted by inimalist
Neuroscience would say most of these things are plastic, and we could have a society that doesn't preset gender roles. This is far more of a social-developmental issue, mixed with cognitive schemas and expectations.
Here's a curve-ball: the gender roll that pretty much every society has for boys is predicated on the fact that boys turn into men with more aggression, test, and androgen receptors.
Meaning...this isn't really a chicken and egg ordeal. The fact that almost 100% of modern humans developed an acceptance of male aggression was present before "humans" actually entered the scene due to a very long line of sexual asymmetry.
Indeed, we find this to be true of evolution in general. Anisogamy (an evolutionary offspring of isogamy) actually promotes biodiversity which contributes better combinations of "different gametes". If the gamete is of the same type, compatibility is rejected. If it is of differing type, they are compatible for fertilization/reproduction.
Bump this process up a few hundred million years and in complexity and you get a binary species: two differing types are required to produce a successful offspring and this is mediated by multiple paths to ensure the best results.
So, I understand why there are a binary species. Would not this be amplified if the "binary" species evolved into hermaphrodites and had an alternate mechanism for detecting how different a member of the same species is? (For example, pheromones have been shown to be useful in determining that another person has a "different" immune system...this also is supposed to slightly prevent inbreeding). It would seem that this is not the case. Regardless, that seems like a simpler mechanism (and easier to evolve) than asymmetric sexuality that ALSO uses mechanisms like the one I explained in my parenthetical. So why did we end up with sexual asymmetry?
It may seem like I'm getting off track, but I'm not.
I say all this to conclude that somehow, nature found the "best" way to produce asymmetrical sexuality. Which has lead to larger, stronger, more agressive males and smaller, less agressive, weaker females.
I say all of this to lead up to this (which you should have guessed a long time ago): society did not really breed this notion that males are supposed to be more aggressive. What "society" is doing is actually an extension of what nature already did. So I don't want to blame society for making males more aggressive: it's just a "compliment" to what nature has already done.
This does slightly conflict with my support of feminism, but not intellectually. Why? Because in our modern society, it is no longer necessary to send your biggest, strongest, most aggressive tribesmen out to hunt. 😐
It's quite obvious that this is not an original thought of my own (from feminism) as this would be the bane and also the primary obstacle to overcome for what I call "good" feminism.
http://www.jstor.org/pss/3811161
That writing indicates that some asymmetry really cannot be overcome (with current science) and we have to just deal with it as educated, thinking, and accepting adults.
I'm not able to think very clearly, at the moment, so forgive how scatter-brained my thoughts are. Discussions like these are better handled verbally as each element can be questioned or investigated to make sure we remain on the same page.
But I can try and sum up this way: society did not really create gender roles. Gender roles created by society are just extensions of a socially complex yet sexually asymmetric species. This means I am more forgiving of ignorant "gender roles" than say, an active feminist. I see them as being almost antiquated behaviors.
It works better with an example:
We don't get angry at male birds for protecting the nest while the female "stays at home" "raising the kids." No, I'm not advocating that female humans stay home and raise kids. lol.... In fact, If I could get my wife to make enough money, I would LOVE to be a stay at home dad and raise my kids.
What does this have to do with the thread? In order to have a discourse on the Republican approach to gender, we much explore the background of gender roles and add a dash of feminist perspective.