Not much left to talk about seeming as he and I have covered pretty much everything. I wont give him an ultimatum. If she makes him happy even for a brief time thats fine. Ill just have to catch the fall out. I seem to be good at that.
Bottom line is he knows how I feel and he knows that its making me a little loopy at times. Its not his problem its mine.
Like ive said before if its meant to happen it will, in the mean time ive got to get on with life.