I never was much of a family man. To this day, attending family/holiday events is something of a nightmare. All it takes is for one of my older cousins to irritate my aunt, or one of their husbands to start arguing with them, and holy war is declared. It's really no suprise to me that my younger cousins stay away from the older people as much as they can.
Originally posted by AsamiI still dont get why people say take a chill pill, I can't find any in the shops!
Take a chill pill......... Its still nice a friendly 🙂
Anyway, life is always a bitch...! I'm pretty sure I aint gonna be able to live up to my parents expectations and trust me being an Asian Oriental is DAMN HARD. I'm putting most of my effort these days in helping my little sister do her best, making her life as easy as poss so she can achive what she wants. That way, at least I know I have done something good in my life even though I've failed practually everything I've tried.
Personally I think you should go do something that will make you happy or so. You shouldn't really care too much about the unimportant things, from the looks of things the problem is more a family thing.
Family and friend issues are always difficult to deal with. Most of my old pals moved away, or got married, so it's hard getting to see them on a semi-regular basis. Like this one guy said he'd be over yesterday, but cancelled the last minute. Then he asked me if it was convenient for him to come tomorrow after work. (I should point out this guy is not married but did recently move further into town)What was I supposed to say? We will see if he shows up tomorrow afternoon though.