Originally posted by Tzeentch._
So in your mind, "murder" and "saying mean things" both exist on the same point on the scale?
No. But best course of action is to not provoke to such an extreme level in the first place.
Originally posted by Tzeentch._
Like, if I walk up to you and say that you smell bad, you feel that you should have the right to... take my life, in response?
No. By telling me such a thing - you will be doing me a favor and I will fix the problem. In this case, you are trying to help me rather then insult me. Unless if you say so loudly in public with an intent to embarass me. But still my reaction will be not severe.
However, your question is besides the point. Thing here is religious beliefs and sensitivities associated with them. If you will insult my beliefs to the point that I would find it impossible to control myself then would it be still my fault?
Guess what? Humans are not machines programmed to act nice in all situations.
Either act responsibly or accept consequences.