Out-man the man if she has one. If she doesn't, do what you'd do after out manning the man. Hit on her and stuff I don't know I don't like being a flirt it makes me feel sick to my stomach I'm about the most direct man you'll see in my normal state I'll just ask what I want to ask. If I have to set up a situation where its okay I'll build a specific group of peeps to set it up.
Find her G Spot.
Lol, seriously though, the law of attraction says that if you desire something it desires you back. That's an encouraging thought.
It's all about confidence, sometimes there's a malevolent force out there that has a role for you, that tries to shape you into liking things and having a personality that's completely different from what you want to have, sometimes tragic of the gods are in the mood for that drama. Sometimes they have a role called loser or ugly mother****er. Sometimes you have to go a little deeper to **** them over and not fit the role they want by making them fail the same way they made you fail.
My advice for that? Get your distance from other people, when many people are clumped together like in a city an observer doesn't need to go very far to get a lot of drama; when one is isolated he's a little more free. Now, you need unconscious confidence, the best way to get confidence is experience and in the 5th stage of sleep a person has the ability to set up what he'll experience for the next few hours, a virtual reality, a dream where any desired experience can be gained. Synthetic experience is not subject to the here and now and therefore is a very a good way to gain confidence.
But even your dreams are subject to manipulation, they can still make you fail quite easily up until the 5th stage, if you set your dream, and win that battle they're cut off permanently (but I haven't even been able to do that). You need to be able to lucid (as real as real life) dream where you know it's real but also know it's subject to manipulation (selected knowledge), basically the real world except you can make things the way you want them to be. Have dreams within dreams, that helps make the baseline dream more lucid. It will be easier to win that battle if you are miles away from people, or in a small isolated town and not around who you're normally around with because they have a large distance to cover to get to you taking away precious time to manipulate humanity on a global scale.
It's very difficult to forget logic, to forget your current perception of the world, and even more difficult to realize for a fact through experience that reality itself is subject to your whims totally and utterly.
People actually can have dreams when they're dreaming. Those dreams can be experienced at superspeed. If you can have a (dream within a dream within a dream)^n the greater n is the more complexity stacks, and the more likely you'll be able to actually manipulate the real world as easily as those most stacked lucid dreams.
This actually doesn't cause wear and tear on the mind, but it does require at least 12 hours in the aggregate of 4th and 3rd REM stages of sleep and in the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th NREM stages, the "cool-down" if you will, and could last 24 hours +. Might have to go into space for a super-complex of stacking lucid dreams, all of which where you can control your reality. Cryogenic sleep would make it far easier.
tl;dr: Read it you lazy mother****er.