Originally posted by Dolos
What are you talking about, sexual repression is fvcking rampant, in part because of how sheltered everyone is.
Sexual repression is rampant and a big part of the reason why many homosexual and bisexual people deny their true sexuality (sort of the opposite of your point).
Originally posted by Dolos
All the girls are more concerned with weight loss and having a boyfriend for show (more like the friend zone) than having an actual intimate relationship. Even at my age! 20 year old WOMEN should not be like that.It ain't natural.
Okay, I'll try.
"Girls concerned with weight loss" (first of all, not all, some, perhaps even most who knows): Our society treats thin people better, it teaches girls from a young age that their looks are the most important thing about them, of course if you were conditioned in such a manner you would be preoccupied with your looks as well (as a side not, you already are obviously, your fascination with body building is based on a similar, sad, foundation).
"Wanting a boyfriend for show": I assume that happens very seldomly, especially young girls romanticize love and relationships (Disney shares a fair amount of blame in that) and desire them. If it does happen I would assume it is mostly due to peer pressure, sort of like losing ones virginity is for men. Additionally a lot of media suggest to women that they "need" a man to feel good about themselves, even if they may not be ready or not truly want it. There's a lot more to unpack in that small statement of yours, but that's some starting points.
"Friend Zone": Oh for ****s sake. Being friends with girls is nice. Wanting them for nothing but sex, idealizing them in an objectifying manner, feeling sorry for oneself even though one is an ******* is not.
May I suggest that perhaps your girl troubles are not the fault of the girls your age, but your immaturity and general dumbassery?