What now?
We may ask, what comes next, after this discussion on the matter of mixing?
It’s about time for us to recognize that no matter how we try to beautify the issue of mixing and take the matter lightly, its consequences are bound to catch up with us, and the harm it causes will have disastrous results for our families. Sound common sense refuses to accept that mixing is a healthy atmosphere for human relations. This is the sound common sense which made most of the people included in this survey (76%) prefer working in a non-mixed environment. The same percentage (76%) said that mixing is not permitted according to the sharee’ah. What makes us sit up and take notice is not this honourable percentage – which indicates the purity of our Islamic society and the cleanness of its members’ hearts – but the small number who said that mixing is permitted; they number 12%. This group, with no exceptions, said that mixing is permitted but within the limits set by religion, custom (‘urf), traditions, good manners, conscience, modesty, covering and other worthy values which, in their opinion, keep mixing within proper limits.
We ask them: is the mixing which we see nowadays in our universities, market-places, work-places and family and social gatherings, taking place within the limits referred to above? Or are these places filled with transgressions in terms of clothing, speech, interactions and behaviour? We see wanton displays of adornment (tabarruj), not proper covering; we see fitnah (temptations) and dubious relationships, with no good manners and no conscience and no covering. We can conclude that the kind of mixing that is happening nowadays is unacceptable even to those who approve of mixing in a clean atmosphere.
It’s about time for us to recognize that mixing provides a fertile breeding-ground for social poisons to invade and take over our society without anyone ever realizing that it is mixing which is the cause. Mixing is the prime element in this silent fitnah, in the shade of which betrayals erupt, homes are wrecked and hearts are broken.
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The amazing thing about the Quran is that it continues to surprise scholars, scientists, historians, geologists, nutritionists, physicists, astronomists etc etc etc - because it is a true revelation and the final one - none will come after it, that can stand up to the scrutiny which the Quran has undergone time and time again.
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The vast majority of young people in the West now
Meets a girl and take her to the room
Without ready for anything
Only satisfy sexual desire
Therefore
Numbers infected with the disease on the rise
Brown said some young people's beliefs "magic" is based on that they can not cause carry their friends could have stayed a lot of relationships that did not lead to pregnancy, what makes them more and more involved in unsafe practices.
Originally posted by eninn
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The vast majority of young people in the West now
Meets a girl and take her to the room
Without ready for anything
Only satisfy sexual desireTherefore
Numbers infected with the disease on the riseBrown said some young people's beliefs "magic" is based on that they can not cause carry their friends could have stayed a lot of relationships that did not lead to pregnancy, what makes them more and more involved in unsafe practices.
The vast majority of the "West" do not meet girls and take them to "the room".
The vast majority of young Western males wish this was true though.
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The vast majority of young people in the West now
Meets a girl and take her to the room
Without ready for anything
Only satisfy sexual desire
Therefore
Numbers infected with the disease on the rise
Brown said some young people's beliefs "magic" is based on that they can not cause carry their friends could have stayed a lot of relationships that did not lead to pregnancy, what makes them more and more involved in unsafe practices.
Adultery is not allowed to exercise for both parties
No my dear brother
Islamic world
Not practiced adultery with the same size of the West
West **** on a daily basis
Yes
But
Polygamy, as well as the wives of prisoners of war
This in Islamic law
God does not affect Muslim
Diseases
In wedlock
But
This punishment for the one who walks in the way of adultery
Statistics in Islamic countries
Hidden or undeclared
Can not be compared with the daily immorality in the West
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This is also due to the real reasons
Away from the teachings of the prophets and messengers
Jesus didn’t fornicate, and abstained from extramarital contact with women. Now, this issue extends to the least physical contact with the opposite sex. With the exception of performing religious rituals and helping those in need, Jesus never even touched a woman other than his mother. Strictly practicing Orthodox Jews maintain this practice to this day in observance of Old Testament law. Likewise, practicing Muslims don’t even shake hands between the sexes. Can Christian “hug your neighbor” and “kiss the bride” congregations make the same claim?
Looking back, what seems strange to me now is not that people would wish to embody Jesus’ values, but that others would criticize them for it. What seems even stranger is that few Christians, in the modern day, match this profile. is that Muslims seemed to embody Jesus’ values better than Christians.
32. And come not near to the unlawful sexual intercourse. Verily, it is a Fahishah [i.e. anything that transgresses its limits (a great sin)], and an evil way (that leads one to Hell unless Allah forgives him).
17. Surah Al-Isra'
More reality and facts
He converted to Islam in 5 minutes youtube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uo15CzIV1KQ
Sodomy
Heinous crime
Prohibition
You remember the Prophet Lut, peace be upon him
You can read all about those events
The punishment and destruction to the village as a result of sin
My article
http://www.aidsinfo.nih.gov/ContentFiles/PediatricGuidelines_PDA.pdf
http://www.cdc.gov/MMWR/PREVIEW/MMWRHTML/00023587.htm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/hi/arabic/in_depth/2003/aids/default.stm
According to the Department of Health in Washington, DC, that the spread of HIV in the city reached epidemic levels with injury 3% of the population over the age of 12 with the virus that causes the disease. And in people in the age group between 40 and 49 years.
This report confirms that the level of the spread of the disease in Washington about its prevalence in Uganda, and beats the spread of the disease in several African countries. According to the report, the United Nations, and control over the management and control of epidemics in the capital has been to describe the spread of AIDS serious Balobaúa in case of exceeding the level of infection rate of 1 per cent.
The report said, "The overall ratio in the district is three times higher" rate. By comparison, the 0.5% of Americans only suffering from cancer. The report considered that the rate of 3% is the percentage of conservative, considering that the number of people in Washington are not aware infected with the disease. The infection rate among black males in Washington, 6.5%, and among men Hispanics 3% while among white men 2.6%.
The infection rate among the age group 40-49 years 7.2%, followed by the age group between 50-59 years are estimated at 5.2%. The main cause of infection with AIDS in Washington sexual activity between males, followed by sexual intercourse
Please note that you will never be able to live your life without sins and mistakes. This is the nature of man. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Every son of Adam commits sin, and the best of those who commit sin are those who repent.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2499; Ibn Maajah, 4251; classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. This hadeeth clearly indicates that man will inevitably commit sin, but what matters after that is what he does about his sin. The believer repents to Allaah from all his sins, gives them up and asks Allaah for forgiveness every time he commits a sin, and he regrets doing it and resolves sincerely not to do it again. If you do that, then understand that Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful; He forgives all sins for the righteous believer who repents sincerely and admits his sin humbly before Allaah. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Say: O ‘Ibaadi (My slaves) who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allaah, verily, Allaah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful”
[al-Zumar 39:53]
The sin that you have admitted to is not zina with your wife! Rather it is kissing her in front of other people, because there is no zina with one's wife, rather zina is done with a woman whom it is not permissible for a man to touch. But in the case of a wife, it is permissible to touch her.
It is not permissible for a man or a woman to speak to anyone else of what happens between them in bed which no one else should see but them, because of the evils and temptations that result from that and because it opens the door to the shaytaan. This has to do with one who speaks about what he did with his wife, so how about one who does things in front of people where they can see him!
Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in his Fataawa that kissing one’s wife in front of people is not permissible.
This is one of the things that go against true manliness or chivalry (muru’ah). It is very cheap and vulgar to do this in front of people, because this is a kind of foreplay with one's wife in front of others. So keep away from doing such things. You can show your love for her in other ways, and when you are alone with her, you can do whatever you like, within reason