Originally posted by eThneoLgrRnae
And then there is a third group who is not actually afraid of Islam or muslims and does not hate everyone who is not a Christian but still rcognizes Islam is a shitty religion and that Muhammed was a pedophile warmonger.I'm part of that last group. 😉
All the Muslims I've personally known have been wonderful people.
But I have 2 different stories that aren't great.
This one Gold's gym in OKC is right next to many medical centers and two universities. Tons of Muslims and Indians worked out there. There was this one Muslim husband who was absolutely terrible to his wife at the gym. The stereotype exists for a reason. He humiliated her because she asked if she could get a new phone. Her's cracked because she dropped it. Worst part about that situation was, she didn't react much but she got sadder and sadder as he kept yelling at her, calling her stupid, entitled, etc.
The Muslim dude I was working out next to (unrelated to the couple), who I knew pretty well because all of us worked out at the same time, told me not to interfere that this was normal and expected: the husband is supposed to "teach" the wife and discipline her. So I let it go and didn't tell him to stop treating her like garbage. He didn't hit her and eventually shutup about the phone and it's none of my business, really.
Second negative experience I've had was a flight back from Canada, sat next to a young and absurdly beautiful Muslim girl. She was 24, married. She talked about her family, husband, husband's family. We just chatted about life - it was a long ass flight over 5 hours. When I asked her how married life has been, she said it was okay but sometimes they fight. I told her that's normal and you'll work it out if both are willing. Bla bla, talked more about family, came back around to her marriage, and she talked about how he hits her if she says what he doesn't like or does what she doesn't like. I said that's not okay and not normal. She said it is in her country that her father still hit her if she did or said something he didn't like. She was 24. Married. Worst part was, the husband was a jobless bum and she worked.
Felt sorry for her.
Other than that, every single other Muslim I've known has been awesome. Very good people. Very kind.