I don't get it DS? You proved that Tony could and would have his suits ripped apart regardless of him being in them or if they were operating under remote control. This leaves me wondering if the suits are simply flimsy under any circumstance? So aside from Tony possibly being able to pilot the suit better while being in it than when he is remotely using it becomes questionable. If we jump to the conclusion that WW Hulk fought a Hulk Buster Iron Man and had trouble with it, we should also jump to the conclusion that the X-Men, Juggernaut, Zom Strange, Sentry, and the rest of the heroes that had trouble against WW Hulk would also be easily defeated by Superior Iron Man, because he easily destroyed the presumably same Hulk Buster suit that gave WW Hulk a fight.
If we decide to believe that Superior Iron Man would defeat WW Hulk, we must also assume that he would be able to easily defeat everyone that WW Hulk defeated. I have to add, that since you proved that the armors could easily be ripped apart by the likes of far weaker characters like Namor, and Spider Man, that we should assume that they would also be a huge problem for WW Hulk. Ares after all ripped through several of those suits like they were paper, but then we see WW Hulk one shot burying him into the asphalt. What should we think here?
1. Inconsistencies can be argued, as it is clear that in some showings Iron Man appears to be portrayed at a far higher level.
2. The scans presented in all, or most instances were handled by different writers that ineptly decided to ignore the characters past feats of durability and strength.
3. WW Hulk was clearly written, and portrayed as being far more powerful than any of the characters that have ripped apart Tony's armor. Why stop at them? Could we also assume that WW Hulk was portrayed as being far more powerful than Superior Iron Man, or should we ignore all evidence except for the evidence that shows Superior Iron Man tearing a prop apart?