Originally posted by Surtur
But see to me it's totally hypocritical and this is again why I say it comes down to opinion.Let me give you an example. This skank is a cheater. Okay, she finds religion. Now, if she wants to use that to say "Because of my beliefs I will never ever cheat again" then FINE super awesome. But if she were to go to another cheating female and be condemning her and judging her for shit she did before? That is hypocritical.
You might say "but she isn't condemning people for doing what she did" but she still feels that because she has now found religion it gives her the right to dictate what others should do or how they should live their lives.
That is hypocritical to me, if you want to use religion to fix up your own life fine.
so then... using my example... i'd like you to answer these questions, if you don't mind:
would you also say that when a former gang member & murderer reforms their life and then goes around speaking out against and condemning gang violence, that makes them hypocritical?
if not, the why not? they are doing the same thing you're accusing this woman of doing... namely judging people for doing shit they used to do.
if you say yes they are hypocritical, then it seems like in that case being hypocritical is a good thing. unless we want to say that it's a bad thing for former gang members to use their experience and knowledge to help combat and speak out against gang violence.
it seems to me that the only difference between my example and what you're saying this woman is doing is that we can all agree gang violence is bad... where as we can't all agree that sex outside heterosexual monogamy is bad. and i agree with you there. i don't think it's a big deal at all. i think the people who are worked up about what others do in their bedrooms are living in the wrong century. but they're not necessarily hypocrites.
a hypocrite to me would be the anti-gay pastor/politician who is then busted for visiting male prostitutes while they are still actively condemning homosexuality.