Originally posted by Surtur
The problem with intelligence, and especially of the young people in college is..they quite often mistake intelligence for wisdom.But it leads to all kinds of hilarious things.
The funny thing is, I was a LOT smarter in college if you base it solely on subjects such as science and math. As a freshman, I remember a time when I could easily multiply up to 3 rows of 3 digit numbers against each other just solely in my head. Numbers just flowed and "made sense" in my head. I could speed read a 300 page textbook in an hour or 2 and have an exceedingly high retention. My tested IQ was in the 140s.
I avoided drinking til I was in my senior year and was not in a relationship til after graduation (had a gf during high school but we broke up right before college). I barely had any friends, practically knew zero sports and, looking back, I was a bit of a condescending douche.
I also held onto a more liberal ideology when I was in college. Essentially, pro-choice (hated kids) and was more agnostic than Catholic.
Almost 20 years later and I can barely do 2 rows of 2 digits. My last IQ test scored barely in the mid 120s, speed reading is still there but retention/understanding is nowhere as close. Guess a few decades of heavy partying and drinking takes its toll. Not to mention stress from work and relationships.
But throughout all that, I feel that I have grown immensely and the me now is a far better me than I was 20 years ago. Experience has taught me how to patiently face complex real life problems and to deal with them when I can or adjust and accept them when I cannot (knowing full well that time may change the nature of the problem enough to solve it or give me new insights for a solution). The old me would practically implode when faced with a problem that I couldn't solve right away. I have far better social skills, I have empathy and a far better ability to accept conflicting views.
I am more conservative leaning these days and have, thru time and experience, reversed a lot of my old views.
I dunno, not sure if the older posters here have experienced something similar to this. But just thought I'd share.