They aren't the Force itself, you know. They are just three Force Balance Watchers(but the Son and the Daughter tasted from two shenenigans of the Force, and one side dominated in them, only the Father remained 'balanced'😉 . They are also part of the Architect species. Remember that even Son's Force lightning didn't turn Obi-Wan into pile of bones. The Ones are strong; but we don't know how strong they are.
We don't know if Force powers won't work on them.
But why is it that his power prevents Anakin from being able to kill him with a lightsaber? Like obviously, he can block it and shield himself against its energies if he's actively focusing on defending against it, but if Anakin were to cheapshot him, what makes it so that the dagger is the only thing capable of ending his existence?
Yeah, that whole "Father dies and takes the Son's power with him even though the Son tried to kill the Father" thing was written in by George Lucas.
And we actually do know how strong they are, or at least we have an idea. The Father said he can "Wield the Force like no other" basically just saying they are the most powerful force users out there. This puts him and Abeloth above the Bedlam Spirits, The World Razer, the Wutzek, the Entity, Sel Makor, The Darker, or any other force entity out there. He also says that the Son and Daughter (or even just the Son alone, which implies just the daughter alone) can tear the very fabric of the Universe. And they also seem to be able to manipulate time itself, the Son does so and shows Anakin the future. But the Bedlam Spirits can do this too. The Book of Sith also says that the Ones are powerful enough to tear the universe asunder.
So by gauging these powers, they seem to be unbelievably more powerful than all others that we've ever met. Abeloth is said to be a dozen times more powerful than Luke, but a feat such as destroying the entire universe would make her something like (and this is a complete guess) 1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 times more powerful. But I guess the amount of time it takes for that Universe to be torn asunder might effect the way things go. Maybe they simply cause chaos by creating violence, which leads to the fabric of space and time suffering consequences, and, over time, that degradation leads to destruction. In that case, the Ones are still incredibly powerful, unreachable by anyone save the Chosen One.