Originally posted by Impediment
The fact is I'm dead set on a divorce. I simply don't want her, and the awful thing is I never did want her. She's a good person but the two of us are like fire and ice. Completely different. We have very little in common.We're cool, though. We're friends and are civil.
Oh, in that case, perhaps just go through with the divorce now. But go to a professional first.
Also, do that thing I said: get into shape. Stop smoking if you can.
Sorry to hear that Imp. Best wishes to whatever you got planned. Looks like you gave it a ton of thought and it definitely looks like you both are mutually certain. I would agree with most that you might want to not have to wait if you both really are sure this is what you want. Life’s too short and uncertain to be suffering thru a loveless relationship if you don’t have to. I’m sure that your daughter would be able to understand if you talk to her about it.
Then again, you would know far better than anyone what is best for your family so ignore everthing I (and everyone else) said and go with what you feel is best.
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through such a rough time Imp.
I hope for you and your daughter you can find a way to come through this and be happy again
Look for charities that do counselling, as some offer free counselling or for a small donation of what you can afford. Hopefully you can find somewhere, if not, we are always here to hear you rant. It’s always better to share than keep it inside.
Wishing you all the best 😍