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Ok, replies are getting loooong. Like I said, we should try and condense points else we’ll end up writing entire term papers worth of replies to each post. 😛 To get each reply out in a timely manner, I’ll have to split my replies into 2 separate posts. Also, can no longer quote your replies without going right through tht word count. So try and to sequence my paragraphs as ordered primarily to address each of yours individually. Feel free to ask if some paragraphs seem out of sequence. Also, please try and not reply til both are posted. Thanks.
Anyway, you must pardon my frustration, as there were actual multiple points that you just skipped through. Imagine the work and thought it takes to type up a reply and then having entire paragraphs just skipped? Even worse, several already addressed points are still cropping up in your arguments and that means I’d have to restate my rebuttals yet again. I wholly prefer it if you go point for point because neither one of us like wasting our time. Points like the fact that no one is arguing against risk to life (yet it crops up below) and me having to previously repeat life’s subjectivity to the individual but not to law and society are just some examples. But I’ll keep the aggression down. But you understand how annoying it is to try and have a decent discussion (I do acknowledge and applaud the respectful demeanor you have approached the discussion on this rather sensitive subject however, I hope we can keep this up 👆).
No offense, but I find the entire foundation of your argument here seem deeply flawed and it seems it is due to the fact that a lot of it, to me, seem to be due to you having difficulty in humanizing the unborn child. It might be a deep sense of cognitive dissonance that many pro-choicers face. I’m hoping, throughout this debate, that you can at least keep an open mind.
Anyway, before we proceed, you REALLY need to stop grasping the “life risk” argument. No one is arguing against risk to life. I feel that you keep adding this onto your argument because in the absence of it, your argument becomes entirely unpalatable. We are talking about “health” w/c has a much larger, vaguer and potentially more subjective (if not properly defined) coverage in conditions.
Next, we need to really iron out our differences in our perceptions of the child. I see the child as a full and equal human being. You seem to... not. I feel that this really should be our primary focus. Would like to remind you, however, that your definitions with regards to the fetus has seem rather fluid in our debates. It went from “parasite” (w/c is a distinct organism from its host) to a “part” (not distinct). Is it because I am changing your mind at certain points or is it because you are grasping at straws to be able to come up with an argument? I’m hoping (for both our time’s sake) that this is the former not the latter. These are not accusations however. In fact, you might not even know at this time how you feel as you typed your rebuttal, introspection of how we truly feel is seldom a top priority in debates such as this.
Ok, to address your arguments: Connection =/= part. They are connected. There is a dependency of the child to the mother, but that is a basic condition of the unborn and even up to newborns. Heck, the fact that the child is And past 22 weeks it’s not even a necessary dependency. This argument has no merit tbh. What makes one distinct from the other are 1) the fact each has a separate sense of “self” (once the child’s brain has reached a certain level of development). An unborn child senses the world and the environment (via basic emotions such as pain, fear, etc) completely independent of the mother, they do not “share” experiences even if the child cannot yet comprehend the experiences it is going thru. A mom, for example, cannot directly feel the same pain experienced by the unborn child (tho I heard that some could “sense” it if their child is in distress). 2) A child develops separate from the mother. A mother can die but the child can still be delivered (within an amount of time) and the child can live independently once delivered (after the 22 weeks period of course). And a child can die within the womb and the mother will live. They share similar but distinct DNA (another identifier for one’s individuality to a point where it is used in forensics).
To be a “part” of something that means that something needs to be incomplete portion of a whole. Once removed, you are still a part, a separate part, not a distinct individual. Yet, it is clear that they are distinct in both mind (see 1) and body (see 2).
What a parent “feels” is an emotional connection, not a literal objective condition. Else we’d have to take terms like “broken heart” seriously. Don’t know why you even brought this up. It just clutters the debate tbh.
As far as what to do if a mother does not want to give birth to a child pas the 22 week period. Tbh, I have no easy answers. You won’t like the answer. And I know many of the more virtue-signaling posters would scoff at the answer. But let me give it to you anyway. Past the reasonable point of termination, a mother should have a choice of induced premature labor, an emergency c-section or taking the child to term.
The problem here is you (and the others who would scoff at this) sympathize and humanize the mother but have practically zero regard for the child (or at least see the child as less than human). We cannot have an honest debate until you can see my logic from my eyes (as I will try and see your logic from yours) or at least discuss this side of the debate and come to a consensus. The child is a person just as much as the mother. Imagine the options here. Death or labor/c-section? What do you think the mother would pick? Imagine someone saying that the mental/emotional/physical anguish of one is enough reason to pop a cap into another? Because you are basically suggesting torture (what do you think a near birth child would feel being torn to shreds during an abortion) and euthanasia if one life inflicts mental/emotional/physical anguish on another.
I believe the 2 latter choices are far more preferable to the vast majority of us than death (but yet this seems more acceptable to some ppl for insane reasons). There will be exceptions (rape/incest/etc) but that is the beauty of a more specific law, we can specify what would be reasonable for both sides. The problem here is that the repubs would never budge on it and the dems, the second they came to power, decided to rip the discussion away from all of us and decided to muscle in a vague and highly abusable law.
Your consciousness argument is moot. It is irrelevant. We, as a society, do not judge a person’s value of life based on the level of consciousness he has. A newborn has as much value of life to society as a full grown 70 year old man. Diminished faculties of “consciousness” does not reduce this. Your life do not lose around 10% life value just because an accident and you lost some of your sight (or some other faculties for sensing the world around you). You need to get outta here with that.