Originally posted by Old Man Whirly!
My wife as you know is black and she went out with a Russian and a French guy as well as a few Nigerians before we met. Clearly not together😖hifty: she says the other white guys dicks couldn't make her scream, my dick is an oyibo (white) African, she says i must be albino.
In some respects, size is not important. Sex with a small penis and sex with a large penis can both be good, just in different ways. The experiences are really like comparing apples and oranges.
With that being said, it is really not the overall size that is important. It is the size and the shape complimenting the body of the receptive partner. It is less one-size-fits-all, and more finding the right fit for each body.
Moreover, average is average for a reason. It is one-size-fits-most as determined by females selecting their partners over time. So average men will have an easier time finding complimentary partners and having satisfying sexual relationships than the outliers, people who are big or small.
It is true that men who are smaller have to work harder, and men who are bigger, less so. It is like being able to hammer any nail, because when your dick is a big blunt tool, you can treat everything like a nail.
For me, the right balance is big enough so it is not easy, but not so big that it is difficult.