Originally posted by Bardock42
it is enough not to be wasted......and selfishnes is the natural state of humans so who caresNo one...but its the decision of the Woman to decide which she thinks would haunt her more
You wouldn't have cared.........
Like I said before....Of course it's the womans choice.....but it should be a well informed choice....
did you ever find me quoting anything else?????????????????
Originally posted by debbiejo
Like I said before....Of course it's the womans choice.....but it should be a well informed choice....did you ever find me quoting anything else?????????????????
Well they can get information...I don't think they have to though...it should be their decision...and I never said you said anything else I always just state my opinion.....
Originally posted by debbiejo
Sooooooooooooooooooooo What! 9 months of 90 years of your life....sounds selfish to me......Who says that what abortion does won't haunt you worse.....
My mother and father split up when I was 4......It didn't kill me not to see my mother for all those years....yes I was curious and yes we did hook up......so...............................at least she didn't kill me, cause my dad won custody. But that's another topic.
If you have a child, it's a lot more than 9 months. It's 9 months just until the baby is born; then if you chose to keep it, it would be another 18+ years raising the kid.
Some people simply want to have an abortion if they find out that they're pregnant. Think what you want, but it in no way affects you what random strangers choose to do with their lives.
And what the hell does your parents splitting up happen to do with anything?
Originally posted by debbiejo
Sooooooooooooooooooooo What! 9 months of 90 years of your life....sounds selfish to me......Who says that what abortion does won't haunt you worse.....
How horrifically selfish of YOU to keep pushing this RIDICULOUS idea that you are thinking of the female.
Who says that abortion won't haunt you? No one. I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I've known roughly about 12 girls who have had abortions through VARIOUS circumstances. The ones who ended up being worse off were the ones who had their kids.
A few of the others said that now and then they DO think about how old the kid would be IF they had it, but they also say that the way they live now is far more worth it than having all the trauma that the birth would have brought them.
You cannot continually push this idea of "Pure life, pure soul, oh it's so lovely" crap. Because it's not any of those things at the time of abortion, which we've already established. Secondly, why do you CONTINUE to insist that it's any of your business? You have your opinions on abortion. Ok great, so what? Why do you continually feel the need to overly expose them to females who want abortions? Why can't you just keep them to yourself and keep out of involving yourself in that which has nothing to do with you?
-AC
Originally posted by debbiejo
Like I said before....Of course it's the womans choice.....but it should be a well informed choice....did you ever find me quoting anything else?????????????????
And here you are making the assumption that women who decide to get an abortion don't know the other choices. You're wrong. Getting an abortion is a hard decision, and most women who get one know the other options available -- and don't want them.
why is it that whenver someone speaks up against the abortion they're getting trshed immediatelly.
i thought everyone is allowed to thier own opinion.
and i STILL think that it is wrong.
of course that my arguments can't be as logical as yours (ppl pro) because life is illogical 😐
but the thing is that my opinion is that they should give some talking to the mother about reconsidering it.
(excluding the endengering life situations obviously)
all.
and yes it is my opinion. and i'm not gonna be standing in front of some genecologists clinic to put it into life.
Originally posted by Clovie
of course that my arguments can't be as logical as yours (ppl pro) because life is illogical 😐
but the thing is that my opinion is that they should give some talking to the mother about reconsidering it.
(excluding the endengering life situations obviously)
Why, though? They've already made up their minds, they've considered all the options, and decided abortion is the best. If they've made up their mind, what makes anyone think that they should be able to try to make them reconsider it?