Originally posted by Adam_PoE
I would be okay with once a week.
That's supposed to be the plan, but it hasn't worked out quite like that lately.
"I'm too tired." or "I'm too bloated and gassy." or whatever the excuse is! It's not like raising kids, and cooking dinner, and working is that hard! Jeez... I do most of the 'work' during sex anyway! 🙄
I kid, but I mean, to me libido energy is different from other energy. There's almost always a little extra in the tank for it.
Originally posted by Patient_Leech
That's supposed to be the plan, but it hasn't worked out quite like that lately."I'm too tired." or "I'm too bloated and gassy." or whatever the excuse is! It's not like raising kids, and cooking dinner, and working is that hard! Jeez... I do most of the 'work' during sex anyway! 🙄
I kid, but I mean, to me libido energy is different from other energy. There's almost always a little extra in the tank for it.
One of the things I noticed is that the availability of sex makes it less of a priority. When someone is always available to you, you tend to put it off, because you can always do it later. The problem is that later does not come about on its own, you have to plan for it.
Originally posted by Robtard
Was she this way before you two had kids?
Well, she's never had a SUPER strong libido. But before kids she would OCCASIONALLY bring up the idea or initiate. I can probably count on one hand how many times that happened, though. But now NEVER. It's always my idea.
Hm.. why don't we have a thread for sex discussion?? hm
There is that Last Time You Had Sex thread, but it's not for actual discussion...
Originally posted by truejedi
And can confirm about availability, and a little about repeatedly with the same partner. Its nice sometimes- you know exactly what each other wants, but sometimes the repetitiveness takes away from the spark.
I do not get bored with the same person, because I will not settle down with someone unless there is something about him that will get me started every time.