"Revan i just need one question awnswered why is not offending people a problem?"
It's a problem because first of all, it's impossible to go through life without offending somebody. The world is such a diverse place, with so many different races, religions, and special interest groups, that if you went through the dictionary and censored every word that might offend somebody or other, it would really narrow down your choices. That hasn't happened yet, fortunately, but that's where we're heading. You ever read Fahrenheit 451? It's about a world in the future where books are illegal because they don't want to piss anybody off with what they say. Maybe it sounds far-fetched, but IMO that's where the world is heading.