I broke it off with my bfriend and he was supposed to take Me to the cottage...i text him im sorry today... he texted me a weird message i dont know what to make of it? He said, i didnt mean it that way, i dont hate you. Ill be going to the cottage for the weekend, ill text u back when i return. I have your hat and ill be returning it to you. Ill text u when i get back? What does this mean? Notice no i love you? No i miss you? Is he going alone now to the cottage?
Originally posted by rudesterwhy are you bothered if you broke up with him?
I broke it off with my bfriend and he was supposed to take Me to the cottage...i text him im sorry today... he texted me a weird message i dont know what to make of it? He said, i didnt mean it that way, i dont hate you. Ill be going to the cottage for the weekend, ill text u back when i return. I have your hat and ill be returning it to you. Ill text u when i get back? What does this mean? Notice no i love you? No i miss you? Is he going alone now to the cottage?
Originally posted by rudester
Is he going alone now to the cottage?
Originally posted by rudester
I broke it off with my bfriend and he was supposed to take Me to the cottage...i text him im sorry today... he texted me a weird message i dont know what to make of it? He said, i didnt mean it that way, i dont hate you. Ill be going to the cottage for the weekend, ill text u back when i return. I have your hat and ill be returning it to you. Ill text u when i get back? What does this mean? Notice no i love you? No i miss you? Is he going alone now to the cottage?
I agree with Welshy.
Why be bothered if he didn't say "I love you". You broke up with him. He's trying to move on and it sounds like he's going to the cottage to have some alone time.
Originally posted by rudester
I broke it off with my bfriend and he was supposed to take Me to the cottage...i text him im sorry today... he texted me a weird message i dont know what to make of it? He said, i didnt mean it that way, i dont hate you. Ill be going to the cottage for the weekend, ill text u back when i return. I have your hat and ill be returning it to you. Ill text u when i get back? What does this mean? Notice no i love you? No i miss you? Is he going alone now to the cottage?
Look I don't know what happened, but I do notice a few things. Namely that you broke it off and yet seem to be upset he isn't saying he loves you or misses you. We can set aside the fact that since you broke up with him you shouldn't care anyways. He isn't going to say he loves or misses you even if he does feel those things..because you *broke up* with him.
I'd feel like a chump if a girl dumped me and then I was all "oh I miss you I love you". I don't know what problems your relationship had, but the fact that you would in a situation like this expect someone to be still telling you they love you and miss you is not good IMO. I would not want to date someone with that mentality.
As to your question..if he told you he is going to the cottage then..well, I assume he is? Or are you trying to ask if he is bringing a date to the cottage?
Originally posted by walshywhen I met him I knew he was going back to Asia for work. I don't want to.. He came over dressed like he'd been on a date.. he always dresses in shorts t shirt... went to find wallpaper for his room and paint samples. It was night now back at his place. Went into the movie room, the movies we rented were on the table so I asked him if hed watches it he said no! I was feeling kinda upset because I saw him get excited when he saw a man in jogging shorts. It wasn't a woe he's hot kinda look more like a do I know him kinda look. Sometimes he says things like... a lot of people keep telling me to decorate my room .. my neighbors probably think I'm weird because of the things they've seen..something along those lines.
why are you bothered if you broke up with him?
He originally invited me to his cottage it was suppose to be our weekend away. Told me last min so I couldn't leave work. After the fight I didn't talk to him for a day. I texted him saying sorry.he used short words and said he was going to the cottage for the weekend. His parents just came back from there..he'd be alone.
I didn't say we are through or we are over.. I shutdown then he noticed I wasn't talking and he stated confronting me.. he said, your acting standoffish..I told him why.. he said let's be friends and I got mad. Then he started crying and I started crying and he said he didn't like this city it was changing him... he said why am I acting like I'm never going to see him. Then he told me hed take me somewhere alone and i said no whats the point
He told me hed take me home so...when he was getting ready i left running.
Originally posted by SurturI was upset because he was late to come get me.. we made plans and now it was the evening..when he came he was dressed like he'd been on a date. He seemed overly excited and rushed. We didn't plan anything that day that would require us to dress up. We went to the hardware store and paint store. It sounds like I'm jealous but I feel like every move he makes is calculated. For example... he doesn't call me when he doesn't have plans with me. He only calls when he has plans..
Look I don't know what happened, but I do notice a few things. Namely that you broke it off and yet seem to be upset he isn't saying he loves you or misses you. We can set aside the fact that since you broke up with him you shouldn't care anyways. He isn't going to say he loves or misses you even if he does feel those things..because you *broke up* with him.I'd feel like a chump if a girl dumped me and then I was all "oh I miss you I love you". I don't know what problems your relationship had, but the fact that you would in a situation like this expect someone to be still telling you they love you and miss you is not good IMO. I would not want to date someone with that mentality.
As to your question..if he told you he is going to the cottage then..well, I assume he is? Or are you trying to ask :if he is bringing a date to the cottage?