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Originally posted by BackFire
Poor, sloppy analogy, hanging out with women is a natural occurance for everyone, rapist or not. Hanging around kids constantly when you're an adult, and sleeping in the same bed as them is not, especially after he's been accused of child molestation in the past. A better analogy would be "if someone accused me of rape I wouldn't stop yelling at women and treating them badly and having rough sex with them". The difference is, all of these things, while legal are all very questionable, especially after someone is accused of rape. Same goes for MJ and his continuing to sleep in the same bed as children after being accused of molestation. Thre's a blatant difference between someone accused of rape simply hanging out with women and soemone accused of child molestation SLEEPING in the same bed as children.
I never said that it wasn't questionable. The fact of the matter is, the parents run that risk. If he isn't doing any harm, then the only issue to be raised is "Well that's a bit weird, wanting to sleep in the same bed as other children". In which case it only comes down to what you think is weird or not, not molestation. Maybe, just maybe, those previous accusations mean nothing to him because that's ALL they were. Accusations. If he did none of it then he has no reason to be worried. Besides, on that documentary he mentioned his bedroom. He never mentioned beds. Mind you I didn't watch all of it. If he said sleeping in the same bed, what I've said still stands but to my knowledge he only said bedroom.
Originally posted by BackFire
It's not just what he says, it's what he does as well. And how is admitting he sleeps in the same bed as children open for interpretation? I say it's his own fault because he could have easily avoided this whole mess.
How? Because parents sleep in the same bed as their kids sometimes. Parents are just as open to being molesters as anyone else. It's just overlooked because they are parents. How could he have avoided everyone? Everyone wants him sent away for one reason or another. Either they thought he was weird anyway and "deserves" this or they believe he's some rampant kidfid based on nothing. When you have most of the world's general populace after you, it's hard to avoid it.
Originally posted by BackFire
Of course, the problem is he MAY be doing harm, hence the whole trial thing going on right now. Yep, people are sticking their noses into places that doesn't concern them, including you. You're obviously keeping up with the trial (much more then I am, it seems, the only time I hear about it is when they talk about it on the radio show I listen to and make fun of it) so you're doing exactly the same thing as everyone else who is "sticking their nose where it don't belong", watching the same programs as everyone else and drawing your conclusions based on the same thing as everyone else..
Doing harm is one thing, intentional harm is another. If I wave a knife around in the kitchen and someone walks into it, then it's down to them not looking and me being wreckless. I'm being careless. I'm not trying to hurt anyone. As opposed to me walking up to some dude and stabbing him. If Michael touched the child in an inappropriate place, the chances are he did it unintentionally or with the likened mind of a child at play. I seriously doubt a young kid is gonna go home and say "Mother, that man sexually molested me and I'm traumatised". It happens when they're old enough to speak and their parents put them up to it. Years later some kid comes out, "Oh yeah and Jackson abused me when I was a kid". It's nonsense.
I'm not sticking my nose into his business, I'm debating with those who are, there's a difference. I'm debating with those who choose to get involved and I hear about it through others. The position that some people take is just ridiculous. I have no reason to believe he did do it and from what I've SEEN, his love of children is natural. Like a parent with no kids. That's why most people have kids, because they like seeing children go through what they went through as a child. That being childhood. Michael Jackson, as it's pretty well documented, never had one. So it's gonna be there more so than anyone else.
Originally posted by BackFire
It's interesting stuff, how can people not be intriguied by a man who has statues of children in his bedroom, a buzzer alerting him when someone is approaching his room, and someone who readily admits that it's okay for grown men to sleep in the same bed with children, even after being accused of sexual molestation.
Statues don't really mean anything. I have a lock on my door to stop people coming in, doesn't mean I'm hiding anything. Supposing his room was open to all and at night a kid walked in there, not knowing any better, and climbed into his bed? What then? Do you think the public would believe that? No. I should imagine he doesn't want anyone in his room unless he condones it. If this was a grown woman, there'd be nowhere near as much problem. It's always males. Age isn't a factor, gender and status are. Namely a MAN named Michael Jackson. The crucial thing there is that you said he was "accused". Not convicted. I'll use the analogy you suggested. Some girls like rough sex, some guys like to give those girls rough sex. If one of those guys is accused of being a rapist and then another girl says "He really got rough with me", does that make him anymore a rapist? No. It means people are just assuming. Just because he likes to hang around with kids and then says, I let children sleep in my bedroom...it doesn't mean he molests them.
-AC