Advice, encouragement, etc, would be appreciated.

No, if that was the case, odds are I would not still talk to her.

We spent 2 days together before this whole ordeal

tell her to shake that ass and get it loose.

I would rather not travel the 'dirt road' quite yet. I would like to use the front door. That is, if she permits me.

just go for it. be yourself and go for it.

Too early, dude. Dont want to push anything

well, wait and let her get picked up by some other dude.

How would that benifit me?

if you wait too long, she will find another.

If I wait too long to sleep with her? When the time is right, I will, but I am not going to rush her. Women (for obvious reasons) dont like that.

women like it when men are assertive, not passive.

Not overly asertive though. Show you care, but don't overdo it.

dont be a macho man, all full of himself, but dont be the nice guy.

That is the exact opposite of what you just said.