we do not raise a hand to any of our girls . when the situation calls for a needed punishment we will put them on restriction .
most of the time a talking to will work . there are some things though that need a punishment other then talking . in those cases you talk w/ them about it & then ground them explaining why .
its also VERY important for the parents to back each other up . a united front so to say . there are to many kids now that know how to play one parent against another . they need to know thats not gonna happen .
Beating your children is your god given right as a parent.
Mother's have a right because they should be able to pay the children back for the pain they caused during birth.
Father's have a right because those little Nazi children will be sucking money from their pockets for a minimum of 18 years.
It's also great exercise and a wonderful way to release stress. 😄
Imagine how many calories you lose chasing your screaming children around the house with a belt as they run for their lives...and don't get me started on the cardio involved when lacing into their rear ends.
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Originally posted by Linkalicious😆 you're to much .
Beating your children is your god given right as a parent.Mother's have a right because they should be able to pay the children back for the pain they caused during birth.
Father's have a right because those little Nazi children will be sucking money from their pockets for a minimum of 18 years.
It's also great exercise and a wonderful way to release stress. 😄
Imagine how many calories you lose chasing your screaming children around the house with a belt as they run for their lives...and don't get me started on the cardio involved when lacing into their rear ends.😆
my girls dont get spanked . but they do have a healthy since of knowing it could happen if need be . so grounding works for them .
She said that?
OMG, how proud would you be?
Remninds me, my little brother had ADHD until the age of about 11/12, but when he was 6 he was at his worst.
I came home one day and there were about 5/6 adults at my front door, yelling at my brother. Apparently, he'd jumped onto the boot of a neighbour's car and proceeded to leg it over the top, down the bonnet, and onto the next car. He covered about 10 cars in all, I think.
Anyway, these car owners were demanding to see his trainers, and when he took them off they marched up to the cars and matched up the grips on the bottom to the marks on the cars.
My mother, god bless her, asked him what the hell he thought he was doing, running up the boot and down the bonnet of all those cars. My brother then pouted, adamant that he didn't do it. My mum, exasperated, told him his trainer grips matched the footprints covering the cars, to which my adorable, yet nutty younger brother replied, ever serious, "I didn't! I ran up the bonnet and down the boot!!!
Absolutely classic, and so memorable, even to this day.......
see that's my damn point. That kid running up and down cars isn't "cute" he's a little delinquent. If i ever had the audacity to do that, my father's foot would have been permanently lodged in my ass. Didn't take more than a couple of belt slaps across the rear before I realized right from wrong...But you'd never find me walking on people's cars, stealing, or back talking my parents.
And the best part of physical punishment against your kids is that you can use the cheesy line. "this hurts me more than it hurts you..."
Then you can unleash hell upon them...while you're at it, might as well add a couple of whacks just to release that tension from your undoubtably sh!tty day at work. 😄