*sighs*
either way it goes we all have our personal lives to live and no one has the right to judge anyone on how they live their life . its usually those that are judging that have not one skeleton in there closet but a whole damn cemetary and they judge others to make themselves feel better about there own demons and insecurieties........
your sexual prefrence is your own buissness as is mine is to me and its no bodies buissness to judge me or be nosey about it unless they are wanting to share my bed .
"What happens when those gay guys raise the child to be a fruit? Ultimately resulting in them suffering through years of ridicule and humiliation at school because they are either raised as little fruits or because they have gay parents?
if they feel the need to love, why not get a dog instead?"
I totally agree. I mean, I think gay, lesbian and bisexual people being that way is totally fine as I've said before. I think it's rather selfish that you would put that child though years of verbal and possibly physical abuse from his peers just because he has two fathers or mothers.
Sure you can't help how your sexuality is and you shouldn't feel you have to, but if you make the choice to be homosexual then you should put aside realistically the want for kids. You've made the choice to live with the undeserved ridicule for being homosexual, don't make the straight kid go through the same thing.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Sure you can't help how your sexuality is and you shouldn't feel you have to, but if you make the choice to be homosexual then you should put aside realistically the want for kids. You've made the choice to live with the undeserved ridicule for being homosexual, don't make the straight kid go through the same thing.-AC
'Choice' i hate that word now its being used way to often.... No one chooses to be gay no one chooses to be picked on. If people choose to be gay people wouldnt be hiding it in the first place. Its not a choice they cant help who they are atracted to. why cant anyone understand that?
There's nothing wrong with being gay, you can't choose what your sexual orientation is.
About gay people having kids... Not all gay guys are going to raise their kids to be "fruits". I know several lesbian couples with a kid or two, all of whom are very responsible parents. Moreso than a lot of straight people I know. It's definitely better for a kid to have both a mother and a father, but I don't think homosexuals should be prevented from adopting kids.
AC... the only ones making a problem of gay couples having a kid are adults ... kids don't give a darn, they see two parents and yes, hey, that kid has two daddies... nice, he can play soccer twice with them
or that kid has two mommies... awesome! more food to eat
a kid doesn't think: hey! that's not normal! that couple will burn in hell now
"'Choice' i hate that word now its being used way to often.... No one chooses to be gay no one chooses to be picked on. If people choose to be gay people wouldnt be hiding it in the first place. Its not a choice they cant help who they are atracted to. why cant anyone understand that?"
Choice was the wrong term to use I'll admit. But what I meant was, if you are comfortable with being homosexual then that's awesome that you can be open about it and stuff. However:
"a kid doesn't think: hey! that's not normal! that couple will burn in hell now"
Your kid walks up to you crying because his friends parents wont let his friend come around to play because he has two dads. How would you feel? You think that when the kid grows up, or as he grows up, that this will not affect him? This is my reason for believing homosexuals having children is a bad choice. I don't think it should be a problem, but it is. Regardless of if choice is the right term or not, if I were gay I wouldn't want a child's quality of childhood demeaned because of my sexuality, as I'm sure no one else would either.
-AC