Originally posted by Evy_O
but the example was neighbours, if I remember correctlyso if you don't feel like talking one day, then don't go, go next day or the day after that
and disliking someone's looks as a reason not to talk is merely silly 😖
and with that in mind... the rest of your post handling about neighbours and mine about random people is a bit tricky to compare 😖
but I do have to add that you starting a talk to someone does have to include you liking the person physicly a bit 😖
I thought so 😛
but still, about random people: everyone thinks it's difficult to talk to them, but it really is not!
I don't mean start talking to them to become best friends! just if, say, you're alone in a place, just start a conversation so that you won't be bored
Originally posted by Clovie
it is VERY not easy. at least for me.
practice makes perfect 😄
Originally posted by Evy_O
I thought so 😛but still, about random people: everyone thinks it's difficult to talk to them, but it really is not!
I don't mean start talking to them to become best friends! just if, say, you're alone in a place, just start a conversation so that you won't be bored
it all depends about you being introvert/extravert I think and how shy you are, if that's already not the same 😖
a shy person is not tempted to talk to other people while someone who isn't and is very extravert will enter the room and already demand attention... it depends on the person ... I think
Me I think i got alotta popular friends in school yet i wouldnt call my self popular. Even though everyone knows me. I make some occasional jokes and get some people laugh but yet i dont throw myself out there and catch on with every stupid lil gimmick i can think of.
I see some people in school who want to be popular there's this one kid who always stands with the popular kids when before school starts but never says anything or when he does say something its entirely idiotic.
Originally posted by yerssot
I didn't mean it in the litteral way 😖just that when someone say "go and talk to them", you don't always feel like talking to people... like one time you just dislike the looks of someone or the other time just don't feel like talking 😖
when people tell you to do something like that you tend to not want to 😖 like if someone said to you 'sing for me😱' youd be like 😕 no!!!
Originally posted by yerssot
hey, if the posts are long or there are many new pages, I just read the last 5 😉it all depends about you being introvert/extravert I think and how shy you are, if that's already not the same 😖
a shy person is not tempted to talk to other people while someone who isn't and is very extravert will enter the room and already demand attention... it depends on the person ... I think
that's the absolute max you can understand, then you black-out huh 😛
sure it does, that doesn't mean you can't try and be more social though
no, I don't agree, a shy person DOES want to talk to people, they just can't find the courage to do so. An anti-social person won't be tempted, nope
Originally posted by m!$hA
when people tell you to do something like that you tend to not want to 😖 like if someone said to you 'sing for me😱' youd be like 😕 no!!!
sure, that doesn't mean it's right though ❌
when your parents i.e. tell you to go talk to others, they tell you that in order not to be alone and bored 😊
Originally posted by Evy_O
no, I don't agree, a shy person DOES want to talk to people, they just can't find the courage to do so. An anti-social person won't be tempted, nope
then if they never like to talk, and always want to be alone, and never seek attention either passively or actively, and are only happy when watching TV or reading books then that's anti-social. NOT shy.
shy is a different thing
if you're a combo, then yes, but I don't think there are many people that never want and have no friends deliberately