How could anyone hate their parents forever? I've been angry enough at my mother to tell her I hated her, but I always make it a point to tell her I didn't mean it after the fact. Our parents, beyond the fact that we like it or not, are supposed to be involved in our lives. They aren't supposed to make life difficult, but sometimes thats all part of responsible parenting.
Continued: I do not hate my parents(hate is a strong word), my mother is kind of strict and very clean, I do know she cares for my brother and I. My father is very friendly and funny. He always makes me laugh when ever I'm melancholy. I don't really get angry. If I do, it takes me about an hour or less to get over it. Sometimes my dad and mom argues about some situations, but they also get over it really fast. I also agree with Capt Fantastic that they are sometimes strict because they want to be a responible parent.
no hating man, that aint cool
especially your mom, man, the one who gave you life
one day you'll realize how important parents are
they're the only people that truly love you in this cruel world
and if they're bitchin at you or won't let you do something, it's only in the act of love, i know, i've been down there alot of times and realized the only reason why my mom was on my ass was because she cared, not cause she enjoyed nagging at me every second of the day
"my dad keeps wanting me to do stuff with him because he never spent time with my sister and they dont know who eachother are. i just want to left alone because no one understands me"
Do you want some cheese with that wine?
Stop crying. Unless the parents a sexually or physically abusive then you shouldnt hate your parents. You think they dont know you, but in the long run, they do. Out of all the people in this world, the people you spend the most with you is usually your parents.
I didnt know having a father that wants to spend time with you is a negative thing.
Im 21 and out of work. If it wasnt my parents who chipped in for rent and food, I would be on my ass right now. I had a troubled childhood but in the long run, my parents rock.
i dont think so according to her post she really ios a *****... 😬
and whoknows i have a similar prob. my dad arrived to china last week, and all he wants is us doing stuff together... i dont wanna b mean but i hate goin out with him... he's not the nicest person either...
i know it isnt a huge ass prob but i do have huge probs trust me... i just dont wanna tell 'em here
Originally posted by Smasandian
"my dad keeps wanting me to do stuff with him because he never spent time with my sister and they dont know who eachother are. i just want to left alone because no one understands me"Do you want some cheese with that wine?
Stop crying. Unless the parents a sexually or physically abusive then you shouldnt hate your parents. You think they dont know you, but in the long run, they do. Out of all the people in this world, the people you spend the most with you is usually your parents.
I didnt know having a father that wants to spend time with you is a negative thing.
Im 21 and out of work. If it wasnt my parents who chipped in for rent and food, I would be on my ass right now. I had a troubled childhood but in the long run, my parents rock.
Obviously no one does understand her, you keep telling her she's overreacting, you cannot over react to things like these. It's a matter of feelings.
You don't know what it's like to be her. When you know exactly what happens to her, and it's nothing serious, then you can tell her to calm down.
Don't take this offensively, I've got nothing against you. I just find it unfair when people tell others they shouldn't be miserable when they know nothing about that person.
its great how all these people talk about how they don't like their parents wanting to spend time with them...
one day that parent will be gone and you'll think to yourself "why didnt i do this or that, maybe if i'd said this or that..."
i aint the perfect son by a long shot but i appreciate what i have...
Originally posted by pr1983
its great how all these people talk about how they don't like their parents wanting to spend time with them...one day that parent will be gone and you'll think to yourself "why didnt i do this or that, maybe if i'd said this or that..."
i aint the perfect son by a long shot but i appreciate what i have...
Same here. I never really got along with my parents too well, but over the past year or two...pretty much since I turned 18, I've been getting along with my mom a lot more than I did when I was 15-16 (at one point when I was 16 I moved out for a week).
You may think your parents don't understand you or are too hard on you, but you WILL realize one day that you were wrong -- that they WERE trying to understand you and that they just want the best for you. I'm realizing that already and I'm only 19.