Originally posted by Linkalicious
being suicidal over what you just stated in the paragraph above IS PATHETIC.Infact, anyone who has a roof over their head and food in their stomache who believes life isn't worth living is a pathetic individual.
Beating the snot out of your children should be your right as a parent. It's the one way to create discipline in the house hold. Snotty little 14 year old girls with full make up purses, cell phones, tatoos, and belly button piercings should get their ass beat regularly. Little boys...well they deserve to get the sh!t kicked out of them regularly just to make sure they grow up to become men.
Suicide is a quiters way out. When life gives you a challenge...you don't take your own life. You face the challenege head on.
That's the only way you make it in this world...
lmao!.. while I would love to agree.. I've seen some of the products of those regular ass beatings.. and I can say its nothing you'd desire as a parent.. they just become wild and even more unmanagable than they were previously.. when they grow up they will remember those ass beatings and turn on you.. I agree there must be discipline, but theres a time and place for everything naturally (which I dunno if thats what you meant) .. people who think about killing themselves just need some cheering up.. someone to let them know someone cares about them, thats all really..
I would never become a parent though lol.. I've seen how hard that mess is... I'd rather be burned alive
Originally posted by pr1983
silver your sig is strangely alluring...and yes, if people actually opened up once in a while they might realise that other people have gone through what they have...
Heh, thanks 😊
And exactly. Everyone says that 'no one understands them'. Well guess what. Try talking to someone (namely your parents if they're the ones you're having problems with) and I'm sure you'll find that they DO understand you after all!
In my religion parents should be the third most important thing in the world to you, that is, after believing in god and not associating partners with Him. In my religion it's nothing short of a crime to even say stuff like "awwwww" as in you've been given something to do and you won't do it. But people today don't care much about religion and they couldn't give a shit about being loyal. There are times when life take's turns that your not happy with, and majority of those turns involve your parents but life never goes according to plan, I mean sometimes when something goes wrong involving my mum or dad then I swear at them behind their back and later when they do something good for me I regret every little bad word I spoke about them and I wonder if I should ask forgiveness before it's too late
Originally posted by Silver Stardust
Heh, thanks 😊And exactly. Everyone says that 'no one understands them'. Well guess what. Try talking to someone (namely your parents if they're the ones you're having problems with) and I'm sure you'll find that they DO understand you after all!
Hey all
And I really like your sig. Pr1983, I'm jealous,lol.
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If the parents understand you completely then why would they continue doing the thing that the child dislikes and is having serious problems with.
Situation:
Kid drops glass plate on floor, it shatters to pieces.
Parent comes along(doesn't matter which one) and drags kid in room.
Balances kid over knee with pants and underwear down.
Tightens the belt and whips the child continously until they get whelps.
Parent gets up and leaves child there.
Next Day:
Traumatized kid meakly calls the parent aside into the room and says:
"Why did you beat me so badly when all I did was drop a plate. The beating hurt so much, and I was sorry for dropping the plate. But I have to tell you, I have a problem with you hitting me and I would like you to stop it.(Now imagine saying this to the parent that so violently beat you, who you say would understand) (unlikely this will go down well).
Parent:
"Who the heck do you think you talking to! Come here!"
Kid is balanced over knee again, butt naked and is whipped repeatedly.
Originally posted by WhoKnows?
and you mean...?
that for every bad situation anybody goes through there are at least 100 other people who've gone through something similar...
saying nobody understands you is wrong, there is always someone who understands, you just have to find them...
even me, i've gone through hell, if you ever wanna talk pm me...
and po, not every parent will react like that...