Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Just to play Devil's Advocate- what fuels a choice? I'm sure you're not suggesting people are gay in spite of their feelings- therefore they have the feelings already. The choice is academic.
I'm sorry but that made no sense to me.
Originally posted by Draco69
*sigh* Swear to god these people failed sex education....You don't choose your sexual desires, you CAN however choose to ACT on it.
Gay people don't choose to be sexually attracted to their own gender. They CAN however choose to ACT on their desires.
Homosexuality is the attraction to one's same gender. Not actions. That's an entirely different subject.
By your logic, I could choose to be attracted to Peter Jackson. Which ain't happenin'
Okay so then when we were born we had some gay gene planted in us is that it? Now I'm gonna hear that being "Gay" runs in the family 🙄 Dude comeon straite people can turn gay, therefore a choice. It is different for every person because they have a different sitituation.
Originally posted by Bun Bun
I'm sorry but that made no sense to me.Okay so then when we were born we had some gay gene planted in us is that it? Now I'm gonna hear that being "Gay" runs in the family 🙄 Dude comeon straite people can turn gay, therefore a choice. It is different for every person because they have a different sitituation.
Read the thread, and the points made in it, before you speak....
No need for the roll eyes if you've paid any measure of attention.
Originally posted by whobdamandog
Everyday we make choices...some choices are more difficult to make then others..but engaging in a particular activity that you've made a choice to engage in..doesn't make it any less of a choice.
Being homosexual is NOT a choice and will never be a choice...
There is such thing as attraction towards the same sex...
Gay people are born gay and it will always turn out that way (Just like straight people are born straight)
I did not wake up one day saying "HEY I WANT TO BE GAY TODAY AND FOREVER!" No it doesn't work that way and never will be. Most people think being gay happens around trouble at home or some other traumatic event, not true (I will admit though my Dad didn't except me at first but now does) I remember when I was maybe 6 to 8 years old I would check out guys, Not getting turned on about it just being very infatuated by them. I have never thought of women that way, Yes women are beautiful and all (And I do not mind looking at them, but not in an sexual way)
America needs to be better educated about this topic, people jump to conclusions and look at only stereotypes in being gay.
Does being gay really affect you so much that it causes you to bicker and ***** about this haha, always fun to see debates go in circles and never go anywhere, when will people get to the real point 😂
You never know your best friend might be gay...Not all gay people act "gay" hence the stereotype aspect of it.
It will always be genetic and will stay that way
Originally posted by Lightningrod
Being homosexual is NOT a choice and will never be a choice...
So you honestly believe that a man is born wanting to stick his penis in another man's rectum, as well as wanting to put his mouth on another man's rectum/penis?
There is such thing as attraction towards the same sex...
Gay people are born gay and it will always turn out that way (Just like straight people are born straight)I did not wake up one day saying "HEY I WANT TO BE GAY TODAY AND FOREVER!" No it doesn't work that way and never will be. Most people think being gay happens around trouble at home or some other traumatic event, not true (I will admit though my Dad didn't except me at first but now does) I remember when I was maybe 6 to 8 years old I would check out guys, Not getting turned on about it just being very infatuated by them. I have never thought of women that way, Yes women are beautiful and all (And I do not mind looking at them, but not in an sexual way)
At what point in your life did you find yourself "attracted" to doing the activities mentioned above? What is it that you find attractive about the male rectum? Do you agree that it's natural purpose is for defication as opposed to procreation?
America needs to be better educated about this topic, people jump to conclusions and look at only stereotypes in being gay.
I don't think Americans need to be better educated on the topic. What individuals choose to do with their private lives should be left private. As long as no laws are broken.
I assue you agree that an ******* is an *******?...you're proof of that. The male rectum is the same as the female rectum. So, why do so many straight guys like having fingers shoved up their ass? Or why do so many guys have anal sex with women? How many women enjoy it?
As always Whob, you try to make gay people out to be deviants and freaks. Which is really just a continuation on your MO. You don't understand something, so it's stupid and evil and makes you sick and blah, blah, blah.... You need to accept the fact that there's more than just one person living in your world.
Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
[B]I assue you agree that an ******* is an *******?...you're proof of that. The male rectum is the same as the female rectum. So, why do so many straight guys like having fingers shoved up their ass? Or why do so many guys have anal sex with women? How many women enjoy it?
My points exactly Captain. No one..be they Hetero/Homo, is born wanting to have a foreign object inserted into their rectum..that's definately a "choice" my friend. But as I have stated before, you all have a right to believe otherwise.
Fin
And as has been pointed out to you, and others, countless times:
Having sex is a choice, straight OR gay sex. But, being gay is not a choice. That's just the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
You seriously think that I chose to be gay? You think anyone would chose to have to defend themselves from people like you? Please, that concept is just assanine! I have no desire to have ANYTHING "inserted" into my anus. I am a "top".
And no one needs you to point out that they have a right to their opinion. That's more of your "I'm more impotrant than anyone knows, except me" attitude.
Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
And as has been pointed out to you, and others, countless times:Having sex is a choice, straight OR gay sex. But, being gay is not a choice. That's just the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
You seriously think that I chose to be gay? You think anyone would chose to have to defend themselves from people like you? Please, that concept is just assanine! I have no desire to have ANYTHING "inserted" into my anus. I am a "top".
And no one needs you to point out that they have a right to their opinion. That's more of your "I'm more impotrant than anyone knows, except me" attitude.
People make difficult choices all of the time.."choosing" to be gay, is no different than any other choice. I apologize if it seemed as if I was making light of the problem, however, I still stand firmly by my position. I will mention, however, that once someone has engaged in a certain type of sexual behavior many times..it becomes very difficult for them to stop doing it.
Not all gay men have anal sex, just a sloppy assumption/generalization you're making, one that is false. You can be gay without wanting to stick your ding dong in a man's poopshoot.
I remember taking a Human Sexuality class a few years back, and we had a gay man come in as a speaker, talking about his lifestyle and asking questions. He said that most gay people that he knows don't engage in anal sex regularly, and that many have never even tried it.
Originally posted by whobdamandog
People make difficult choices all of the time.."choosing" to be gay, is no different than any other choice. I apologize if it seemed as if I was making light of the problem, however, I still stand firmly by my position. I will mention, however, that once someone has engaged in a certain type of sexual behavior many times..it becomes very difficult for them to stop doing it.
That's just plain bullshit.
And, as you desired, I will tell you that being gay isn't a problem for me.
Originally posted by BackFire
Not all gay men have anal sex, just a sloppy assumption/generalization you're making, one that is false. You can be gay without wanting to stick your ding dong in a man's poopshoot.I remember taking a Human Sexuality class a few years back, and we had a gay man come in as a speaker, talking about his lifestyle and asking questions. He said that most gay people that he knows don't engage in anal sex regularly, and that many have never even tried it.
Another sloppy assumption/generalization of whobdamandog is that heterosexuals do not participate in anal sex as frequently as homosexuals do.
According to a Playboy magazine study, 45% of heterosexual men report participating in receptive anal sex.
I dont even know how to describe what I want to type to whob...all i can say is man shut up...You really have no understanding of things of this sort. Leave it to the gay people to tell others if it is or isnt. So straight people should stay out of it and let us gays say what it is (no offence to straight people if you feel offended)
oh, this thread is still around? wow, and the calibur of posts like Darth Zannahs.
My high school handled homophobia in a very unique way. If you were particularly homophobic, insulting, intolerant, violent etc. the football team would use your rib cage as a trampoline. That's why we had such a tolerant, positive, and peaceful existance there.