Homosexuality: Chosen or Genetic?

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
Answer these questions:

What parental influence lead her to the conclusion that daddy was bad for being gay?
How did she know what gay was?
What did the brother do to be threatened with a knife?
What other things are going on in their lives that could have effected this personality shift?
Tell us more about how hard it is for you and your boyfriend to be forced out of your home town, and how that has effected these children
No, I don't have children. Nor do I want any of my own right now. But, just because I don't have children doesn't mean I've never spent any time around them. I got to know my ex's neices and nephews. I have my own that I have spent a lot of time with.

Now, feel free to answer these questions, and I'll feel free to not think you two are the same person.

1 she didn't understand what it meant when he told her and as a free willed person made her own choice when it was explained
2 answered by number 1
3 ABSOLUTELY NOTHING they where doing dishes and she threatened him
4 personality change happened when she was told and met his boyfriend
5 the kids have had to start over very upset to have lost there friends and starting new schools and it has been very hard on me and Midal have no one to turn to when it gets rough as neither of us trust easily outside of our relationship.
6 you don't understand until you have children of your own how much something will effect them and 7 my son is to embarrassed to tell any one his daddy is gay.

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
Getting a little confused in all this, are you?

What exactly does your bad personal experience have to do with homosexuality though. Maybe the dishonesty, or the conditioning berfore were wrong. It doesn't mean that homosexuality is wrong, just the way it is treated.

Originally posted by Em'J
1 she didn't understand what it meant when he told her and as a free willed person made her own choice when it was explained
2 answered by number 1
3 ABSOLUTELY NOTHING they where doing dishes and she threatened him
4 personality change happened when she was told and met his boyfriend
5 the kids have had to start over very upset to have lost there friends and starting new schools and it has been very hard on me and Midal have no one to turn to when it gets rough as neither of us trust easily outside of our relationship.
6 you don't understand until you have children of your own how much something will effect them and 7 my son is to embarrassed to tell any one his daddy is gay.

6 So, junior is too embarrased to tell anyone, but he is being made fun of because of it? Are these kids twins? Because they are both 7 apparently. No, I don't have kids. But, if and when I do, they'll know their father(s) are gay. And they'll be raised in a world where they aren't taught that gay=bad.

5 So, no longer living in the town they are used to couldn't have had some measure of effect on these personality shifts? Moreover, why would they miss a father that is responsible for all these life changes? And beyond that, why would they think homosexuality is the cause of all their problems if you and your boyfriend hadn't blamed it on that?

3 So, when she flipped out and threatened her brother with a knife, you were able to work it out of her that she was doing this because daddy was gay now.

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
3 So, when she flipped out and threatened her brother with a knife, you were able to work it out of her that she was doing this because daddy was gay now.

Yeah... I mean, does someone actually go "Grr!! My Dad is gay, so I'm gonna go stab my brother! Grr!" Doesn't make much sense. 😕

"it happens to me so it happens to everyone"

Originally posted by Quiero Mota
Thats because being straight is normal; and therefore a given. Anything that strays from normal must be a choice, que no?

Where is the proof that it is 'normal' to be straight? There is no proof, if there were, we'd all be in therapy. Just because there are more straight people than gay people, doesn't mean it is normal to be straight. It is normal to be both. Sexuality is normal, love and emotion is normal.

Originally posted by Makedde
Where is the proof that it is 'normal' to be straight?

Take a course in human biology. I think you'll find your "proof" there. 😉

Why do homosexuals need a justification for their choices ? Why they can´t take the responsibility of their choices ? Is pedophillia genetic too ?

How are homosexuality and paedophilia even remotely alike?

Originally posted by Bardock42
What exactly does your bad personal experience have to do with homosexuality though. Maybe the dishonesty, or the conditioning berfore were wrong. It doesn't mean that homosexuality is wrong, just the way it is treated.

maybe he should have told me he was gay before we married and had kids bit selfish on his part . when it all came out he admitted to me he thought he was gay and has tendancies from a childhood !!! if known thing would be different would'nt have had kids with him and they would'nt be going through what is happening now they obviously still love him and lovebeing with him but he does'nt put them first he would rather spend time with his partner, and midal and i suffer cos kids get upset when he lets them down .

Originally posted by Em'J
maybe he should have told me he was gay before we married and had kids bit selfish on his part . when it all came out he admitted to me he thought he was gay and has tendancies from a childhood !!! if known thing would be different would'nt have had kids with him and they would'nt be going through what is happening now they obviously still love him and lovebeing with him but he does'nt put them first he would rather spend time with his partner, and midal and i suffer cos kids get upset when he lets them down .

My point exactly, the problem is not that he is homosexual, but that he wasn't honest.

Originally posted by Bardock42
My point exactly, the problem is not that he is homosexual, but that he wasn't honest.

point taken but at the end of the day i have to deal with this shit while he is at home with his cosy life style !!!!!!

Originally posted by Em'J
point taken but at the end of the day i have to deal with this shit while he is at home with his cosy life style !!!!!!

Yeah, this is not a pity thread though, but a discussion about the nature of homosexuality.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Yeah, this is not a pity thread though, but a discussion about the nature of homosexuality.

yeah whatever !!!!!

Originally posted by whobdamandog
Take a course in human biology. I think you'll find your "proof" there. 😉

You're so full of shit.

Originally posted by pr1983
How are homosexuality and paedophilia even remotely alike?

they are both considered abnormal by many other humans.

Beyond that, it's a weak argument.

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
they are both considered abnormal by many other humans.

Beyond that, it's a weak argument.

Wait a second now..I saw an adult male lion passionately embrace a younger male lion..let's not rule out pedophilia as being an unnatural behavior...😉

yeah, except they don't.

Found the pic..proving that pedophilia is indeed a "natural" behavior..

Just look at what type of behavior those lions are engaging in..

Nothing but animal kiddy porn I tells ya!!!