Homosexuality: Chosen or Genetic?

Originally posted by Kanashimi
Well in my own thoughts I beleive it is genetic, I myself am bisexual and I didn't choose it i was jsut born this way. but it dont matter you are who u r

How do you know you were born this way?? You didn't get sexual tendencies the day you were born.... these are things that we learn. Partly instinctive, partly environmental, partly preference. I'm bisexual and I didn't wanna screw my girlfriends at the age of 4 😑

Well, I knew I was gay when I was three. AND, I started sleeping with one of my neighbors when I was 8. Now, there wasn't any penetration..or even erections. It was mostly just lying on top of each other naked and kissing all over. I also played "doctor" with one of the neighbor girls at around the same time. It wasn't very appealing, so I just kept "sleeping" with the neighbor guy. I simply knew what I prefered. It wasn't taught to me...I didn't learn it from all the exposure to homosexuality that I got from TV...couldn't have. There wasn't any.

at 8, didn't your parents, or their parents relise what you were doing??

to be honest i did that kind of things when i was young as well. i did not come to terms with myself until recently however. but i do believe i was born bisexual.

what do you mean that you did that sort of stuff??

Is that in your sig??

Originally posted by spidergrl
at 8, didn't your parents, or their parents relise what you were doing??

No, they had no idea what I was doing. I knew better than to go around telling people what we were doing. I mean, I never thought it was wrong, but I knew I was too young to be doing it. Never the less, I knew which of the two I preferred.

when i was youger..i was curious with other boys.

Capt_Fantastic - was the guy, gay as well!! I mean later on in life?

I don't see how you did it, I can't get anything passed my parents!!

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
No, they had no idea what I was doing. I knew better than to go around telling people what we were doing. I mean, I never thought it was wrong, but I knew I was too young to be doing it. Never the less, I knew which of the two I preferred.

yea i knew what i preffered as well (which is both males and females). now i'm actually ok with myself and now i am in love with the guy of my dreams.

gls - is that you and him in the picture or what?

I didn't know the answer to that question for a long time, and I thought about it every now and again. Then, my mother called me and let me know that she had run into his mother at the grocery store. When I asked about him, she told me that he wasn't married but had a couple of kids and was living with his girlfriend in the next town over.

So, I'm assuming that he is straight...but these days, you never know. I mean, I know a lot of older gay men that have ex-wives and current wives and children and grandchildren. So...you never know these days.

yea i know, the point is, most people hide how they feel because they're scared of what people might say or what ever! He might be, but just didn't accept it......and tried to live a normal life!

...normal....

btw yea thats me and him in my sig. ..i coulda sworn i talked to you before..hmm maybe i'm thinkin of someone else..

gls...you guys make a cute couple

Cheers to you

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
gls...you guys make a cute couple

Cheers to you

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
gls...you guys make a cute couple

Cheers to you

thank you Capt! hug

Which one is you?

Originally posted by Syren
How do you know you were born this way?? You didn't get sexual tendencies the day you were born.... these are things that we learn. Partly instinctive, partly environmental, partly preference. I'm bisexual and I didn't wanna screw my girlfriends at the age of 4 😑

hmm , so for some its more genetic for some more chosen?