Ok, Cap surviving having a building fall on his head is just bad writing. He's great and all, but that's just crazy.
Spider-Man cannot collapse a building by hammering it with his head. He can put his fist through the concrete without feeling it, but not his head.
Daredevil has not given Spider-Man the fight of his life. He's challenged Spidey and given him a work-out, but Spidey has faced far worse and come out on top. Daredevil is a good fight for him because of their comparable speed, agility, fighting ability, and spider/radar senses, but Spider-Man vs. Hulk, Juggernaut, and Thanos were more 'fights of his life.' Venom teamed with Spidey wouldn't lose. Wolverine cannot hurt Venom, Daredevil is virtually obsolete against him, and while Cap would have a small chance of success against him, he's still out of his league.