well venom is everything that spidey is, plus a whole lot more, he doesn't have the same intelligence, but then again he doesn't need it.
The reason why spider-man can't bob and weave around venom's attackes is because venom doesn't trigger his spider sense at all, so spiderman is forced to use all his actual knowledge of fighting which i suppose can get pretty rusty when you're able to let a "sense" take care of that for you, so venom beating the crap out of spidey makes all the sense in the world.
Also in regards to the spiderman, wolverine fight........Wolverine had his claws out the entire fight and was swinging away spiderman's speed was the only thing saving him, He can only react so fast for his senses, but for the fight it was sufficent enough to evade wolverine for a bit,
After spidey began to lay into wolverine, putting his head through a tombstone with multiple punches, Wolverine just layed there smiling at spidey, he then rushed spidey and tackled him to the ground (if he was going for the kill he would have just tackled spidey with his claws, but he didn't) he THEN hit spidey in the face with his claws unsheathed. (Now I don't care how much spidey's spidey sense helps him in a fight, he was on the ground and got hit in the face, like I said if wolverine wanted him dead, we wouldn't have the 20 some spiderman titles that are on the shelves today). Despite the earlier comment, this comic book is actually one of the more well written comics to come out of it's era, it stays true to both super heroes in both character and ability, it's a significantly good read, and holds one of the most importants spiderman moments in history with the dath of ned leeds the "original" hob goblin.
I don't think my "IF" statement was deserate in the least, it's just the truth. And no I'm not humiliated except maybe in your sad pathetic little world because I actually know what the hell I'm talking about, I went out and bought the 40 years of amazing spiderman collection and read some 500 and something spiderman comics, i went out and collected all of SPIDER MAN up to the end of the return of the exile, and i have a bunch of spectacular and peter parker, I'm "up to snuff" on all spidey's powers abilities and feats of all sorts, but the bottom line is, despite all the great spiderman comics I own and have read, theres is not thing one that yet convinces me that he would beat this entire team of "Marvel Legends" these guys take on far more dangerous foes than spidey on a regular basis, yes it's true that the same could be said for spiderman but it's three solid, extensive, impressive records versus his one...........Spiderman would have a hard enough time beating any one of these guys, I really, really doubt he'd beat the crap out of this whole team like you guys are suggesting, despite what you think spiderman is no god, he's been beaten by far less impressive foes (shocker for example) and just isn't capable of walking through this super hero gauntlet like the breez,,,,,,he'll fight,,,,,he'll fight valliantly, and he'll lose valliantly.