yeah, i have two friends i want to meet in Netherlands, but i dont talk to my other friend as much anymore.
I'm set on meeting my German friend Christina if i ever go to Europe.
i'm probably sure i'll be going to Europe once in my life, and i'm making sure i meet at my friends the 1st time around if able.
Originally posted by sXe
very sad if yawl don't. i have no pity.
Pro-Lifer, eh? 😛
I want to keep the baby, but at the same time we don't know how permanent our relationship is and wouldn't want to raise a child in 2 different homes if we break up.
We're going to a doctor on Monday to confirm or deny the home test. We'll start seriously discussing our options once we know for sure.
I wouldn't say i'm pro-life, but if u do the action, you can deal with the consequences. not saying i consider having a child is a consequence, but you get the picture. just because yawl get prego doesn't mean yawl HAVE to stay to together and get married, because that is not a good idea with young people. Like my sister and ex bro in-law.
A lot of couples in yawl situation have ended up splitting up after being conceived, and they're both happy, happy child. and they raise the child like any other parents were. i mean, it yawls situation i can't influences yawl decision. I know i wouldn't take the life of my child. i know its heart is beating someone in side me and that would **** me up for life. abortion can also make it where you can't have kids again (like this girl i know).
next time... condoms. the pill. PULL OUT. no where does it say you MUST cum inside her. OR.... you can just not do it at all!!!
can't help but think of Verve Pipe's 'The Freshman' song.
Hi Lance. If you keep the baby, well, congrats. 🙂
If not, I like JP's idea. You never know what type of future that child may have ahead of it. Even if you put the child up for adoption, it has a chance of living the fullest life and gaining it's fullest potential possible, and you would probably sleep better at night knowing that it's alive and that you could still have an active relationship with him/her someday.
I'm rooting for ya. I hope everything works out.
Originally posted by Sith Master X
Hi Lance. If you keep the baby, well, congrats. 🙂If not, I like JP's idea. You never know what type of future that child may have ahead of it. Even if you put the child up for adoption, it has a chance of living the fullest life and gaining it's fullest potential possible, and you would probably sleep better at night knowing that it's alive and that you could still have an active relationship with him/her someday.
I'm rooting for ya. I hope everything works out.
That's an option, but if she doesn't want the baby and doesn't want to go the full 9 months carrying it, I can't force her to. But we have yet to really discuss our possibilities, so its all up in the air right now.
If she doesn't want it, but would be willing to carry it, I would like to assume custody.