Originally posted by ~JP~
Oh jeez its 9 months out of her lifetime and actually less than that now. Sheesh women. Best of luck.
I understand where she's coming from and all, which makes me extremely happy to say that she understands where I come from as well. We talked it over tonight and I expressed how I'm uncomfortable about an abortion and how I'd like to go through with the pregnancy.
So we're either going to raise it together even if we never get serious and break up, or I'll raise the child myself once/if we break up or we could go the open adoption route so we can still get news and updates on our child through their lives.
Adoption was always on the list of possibilities for me, but the open adoption one was her idea. Which tells me she really will carry the baby the 9 months because I don't want to go through with abortion and all the possible feelings of regret and sadness which could come with it. And that she knows she will grow to love the baby during the pregnancy even if we know we should still put it up for adoption if we don't feel we're ready or even if we ever would be ready to be parents together.
i honestly don't remember a day in my life that hasn't had drama or stress since i was 13. I'm moving out in August to go to a university.
probably going to cry ever day for being separated from my nephew. i don't care that he only screams and whines all day (terrible two's and teething) i rather hear his screams than his voice not at all.
Hey Jen. I feel your pain in regards to your nephew. I'm extremely close to my nephew. He's 8 years old now, but he's been my little best friend since the day he was born.
When I left for college 4 years ago, hugging him goodbye was probably the toughest part for me. I did it upstairs in my house where no one could see me crying. lol It was hard, no doubt about it. But the cool things is, everytime I came home, his eyes would light right up and he'd have the biggest smile on his face. That made every trip home worth it.
JP, I'm great, thanks. 🙂 Been busy though. Trying to get a few things off the ground now that I'm out of school. We'll see what the future holds.
jen u definately luv your nephew your gonna be a great mom someday can I start shooting applicants? bastards better buy you stuff if they r gonna appply...bring em to the milk bar let your buds tear em apart see if they produce diamonds after dealing with your crew..hehehe...you ever have kids I have faith in u...ur awesome