Is it ok for a 16 year old to have sex with a 20 year old?

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Why?

-AC

Exactly I say if its legal feel regal

does age really matter? in sex or love?
i m 17 i love a 24 yrs old guy.....neva had sex tho.

Originally posted by Bicnarok
As long as its the guy who´s 16

Ok, ok, ok...this might sound most strange and all...but can someone please answer why this aplys.....I mean like.....it's just such a strange thing to say....

Me and my fiancee have ran out of things to talk about we are wonder if we should go to the next level in our relationship or not but the two things we know that one is we love each other more then any in the world the second is that we want to spend the rest of our lives together i am clueless because i never felt like this before

Originally posted by dragoony
Me and my fiancee have ran out of things to talk about we are wonder if we should go to the next level in our relationship or not but the two things we know that one is we love each other more then any in the world the second is that we want to spend the rest of our lives together i am clueless because i never felt like this before

Ok so you are sayin g you are 18 she'S 16 and you already ran out of thoings to talk aboo....hmm.......like ...that's not that good now is it? ....Anyways I believe in some countries it would be illegal for you to haved sex with her........although I got this information from the Movie "The Jury" .........but I am always right...so just listen to me...

me and her have so secrets from each other we talk about every thing so its is easy for us to know what the other is thinking without talking so we are thinking about it but we are not sure about it

Originally posted by dragoony
me and her have so secrets from each other we talk about every thing so its is easy for us to know what the other is thinking without talking so we are thinking about it but we are not sure about it

i meant we hide nothing from each other

that i don't know but things are easy not having to talk. but i am not to sure

i think its fine. younger people are getting maturer these days and its no strange situation in the uk. i'm 25, but my girlfriend is 17. shes mentally more mature than most women my age. someone mentioned that if the 16 yr old got pregnant then the 20 yr old would walk away. rarely happens. if shes with a guy that treats her like that then its her own fault for not using protection. if my gf got pregnant i'd stay with her because i love her. simple as that

Its the opposite with me, I date older girls.
Younger girls tend to be foolish, particularly towards older men, and they are easily seduced. I just like the company of older women, 3 years and up usually. [/B][/QUOTE]

I have a friend who likes dating older girls as well. He is 18 and his gf is 22. I think there is nothing wrong with that, if two people are happy together and they are already adults.

i used to be the same, i was with a 26 yr old once and i was only 16. is that a bad thing? if no then it shouldnt be other way around too.

That ain't so bad, that only a 4 year gap
But would still be kinda dodgy
You also have to think about the gap
The 16 year old could be 17 soon and the 20 year old just turning 20.

I agree all around... with the last posts.

I like younger girls, PVS will probably make another snide comment but screw him, the truth is girls around my age (20+) are sex-crazed fools who are shallow and egotistical. Not to say they're all like that. But why struggle to find the 1 out of 20 who isn't when I can just knock the age category down a peg and find girls who are more interested in actual loving relationships? Albeit younger girls are more niave, but that's because they're impressionable. And better I impression on them then some other guy who will teach them to become another 20 year old whore..

But then I met Amanda and she's 18, so it all pretty much worked itself out in the end. God always finds a way. It's in His blood..

i think people should be able to love whoever they want, despite age.

its all about the love...

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Can we get some kind of answer to the question "Why?" with regards to the comment "As long as the guy is 16", please?

-AC

But!!! For a boy of 16, it is considered almost as a rite of passage! And not looked down upon as a bad thing when considering the fact he is near "manhood". I myself lost it when I was 15, and let me tell you, I wish to God everyday was like that day!!!!

Originally posted by Spelljammer
I like younger girls, PVS will probably make another snide comment but screw him, the truth is girls around my age (20+) are sex-crazed fools who are shallow and egotistical. Not to say they're all like that. But why struggle to find the 1 out of 20 who isn't when I can just knock the age category down a peg and find girls who are more interested in actual loving relationships? Albeit younger girls are more niave, but that's because they're impressionable. And better [b]I impression on them then some other guy who will teach them to become another 20 year old whore..

But then I met Amanda and she's 18, so it all pretty much worked itself out in the end. God always finds a way. It's in His blood.. [/B]

I am waiting for someone to say, "that isn't a bad thing is it?"

Originally posted by Scoobless
wow...lol...."Canda" has some wierd laws

🙄

can you spell "CANADA"

Originally posted by Spelljammer
I like younger girls, PVS will probably make another snide comment but screw him, the truth is girls around my age (20+) are sex-crazed fools who are shallow and egotistical. Not to say they're all like that. But why struggle to find the 1 out of 20 who isn't when I can just knock the age category down a peg and find girls who are more interested in actual loving relationships? Albeit younger girls are more niave, but that's because they're impressionable. And better [b]I impression on them then some other guy who will teach them to become another 20 year old whore... [/B]

I don't think thats a bad thing 😉