Teenagers and Sex

Started by KawiiShiloh13 pages
Originally posted by champion
My parents always taught me sex after marrage, well my mom did. My dad said the same thing but he made me promise if I did have sex before marrage, to play it safe. I knew what a penis and vaginia where in preschool. My mom worked at OBGYN. The people at the day care were going to tell my mom I had been molested until she told them where she worked.

Hey Champion. People at the day care sound awful, All I can think to say.

Stay happy.

Shilloh

Fair enough if its a belief (i.e the sex after marriage thing), but it seems there are alot of people here that think that if they had kids, they'd be freaking out if they were having sex around the 16 - 17 mark. If you've taught your kids that sex is ok as long as they use precautions and are carefull, whats there to be scared about? why say things like "i'd beat the shit out of them." Its like sex is an unnatural act that is completly wrong untill your married. They'll be fine if they know that its something to leave till your over the age of consent and if you are carefull, and in the end, thats up to the parents to teach.

I think that its great that some people wait till they're married but i hate when they feal like they'll burn in hell if they don't or try to push that belief on others.

Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
I started this thread because I wanted everyone's opinion on young teenagers/teenagers having sex. For instance im part of a girls advice community on the net and there have been SO MANY 12 and 13 year olds saying they've had sex and/or are pregnant. It really annoys me. I mean, Im 15, turning 16 next month and I havent had sex before. Im not saying I wont, but I wouldnt have when I was supposed to be running around with my lil girlfriends, playing dress up, and playin with fking dolls! I read about this 13 year old girl that is going out with a 21 year old and she wants to have sex with him. THAT IS WRONG! Sex at that age is just wrong.

That's very sad... Those girls are pretty much a lost cause, because if their parents haven't taught them right from wrong by that age, it's all downhill. The only thing you can do is keep giving good advice and teach your kids (when you decide to have kids) what's what.

I think 15+ isn't a HUGE deal, sure I wouldn't want my kids having sex even at that age but it MIGHT happen. IF they are three years or closer together there is isn't a thing you can do about it in Oklahoma.

... so (by law) a 15 year old girl and a 18 year old guy is ok?

Originally posted by D-Double
... so (by law) a 15 year old girl and a 18 year old guy is ok?

Actually I think that's molestation

Originally posted by D-Double
... so (by law) a 15 year old girl and a 18 year old guy is ok?
In Oklahoma yes, So long as the guy isn't over the age of 19. It gets even weirder tho. A male at 16 can have sex with any woman of any age. 😕

Originally posted by WickedTexasMomA
A male at 16 can have sex with any woman of any age. 😕

Is this something you found out or learned? 😉

Originally posted by WickedTexasMomA
In Oklahoma yes, So long as the guy isn't over the age of 19. It gets even weirder tho. A male at 16 can have sex with any woman of any age. 😕

How is that weird?

It something we learned. My baby brother started seeing a woman 12 years older then him so we hired a lawyer because his foster parents where trying to get him sent off over it. Lawyer told them they couldn't do jack about it and explained why.

Originally posted by Bardock42
How is that weird?

Probably because the law for fifteen year olds could be extremely limited, and then BOOM - all laws out the window - once that calendar page turns over.

Originally posted by Bardock42
How is that weird?
Its not that its weird its just that it isn't right to give a young male more freedom them a young girl. Tho its not like a guy can go out and get pregnant think but its still screwy.

Originally posted by WickedTexasMomA
Its not that its weird its just that it isn't right to give a young male more freedom them a young girl. Tho its not like a guy can go out and get pregnant think but its still screwy.

Wait, why can't a girl of 16 sleep with any man she wants?

And its like the Law is bending more and more in recent years towards under age sex. I just find it mind boggling we say one thing and the next thing we know everything has changed.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Wait, why can't a girl of 16 sleep with any man she wants?
If the parents want they can file rape charges on any male over 19 who is sleeping with the girl. Then he will also get child molestations on his permanent record and have to be filed as a pedophile.

Originally posted by WickedTexasMomA
If the parents want they can file rape charges on any male over 19 who is sleeping with the girl. Then he will also get child molestations on his permanent record and have to be filed as a pedophile.
That is a bullshit law then. It should be the same for everyone. ****ing sexist bastards.

Originally posted by Bardock42
That is a bullshit law then. It should be the same for everyone. ****ing sexist bastards.
I agree, in fact one of my brothers friends got sent to prison for sleeping with his underage wife. 🙄 They where dating, and sleeping with each other , when he was 20 and she was 17. Right before she turned 18 and they got married her parents went and filed rape charges on him. He is now spending the next ten years in prison and he hasn't seen his own child. Another lil Oklahoma Law. You can't have visit with anyone under the age of 10 while incarcerated.

Originally posted by WickedTexasMomA
I agree, in fact one of my brothers friends got sent to prison for sleeping with his underage wife. 🙄 They where dating, and sleeping with each other , when he was 20 and she was 17. Right before she turned 18 and they got married her parents went and filed rape charges on him. He is now spending the next ten years in prison and he hasn't seen his own child. Another lil Oklahoma Law. You can't have visit with anyone under the age of 10 while incarcerated.

Wow, your state has quite a lot of bullshit going on.

Tell me about it tho we do have this nifty little law now. If you feel threaten by someone you can shoot them dead and get away with it!!!