Originally posted by Fishy
How do you see if somebody is in love or not? If two 9 year olds say they are in love, can they have sex? Or do they have to wait until you think they are in love?
Originally posted by yerssot
then how can you say they should be prohibited from sex if you can't see when/if they're in love
most nine year olds dont understand the concept of love and what it means. I'm 16 and I don't understand the concept. I've dated and had some feelings towards someone else, but not love.
And yes, even if two 9 year olds are in love, they should wait at least 6 or 7 years.
If my daughter were to have sex before 16 years old (which for a girl is still to early) I would beat the everloving shit out of her and send her to an all girls military camp.
Originally posted by allofyousuckkk
If my daughter were to have sex before 16 years old (which for a girl is still to early) I would beat the everloving shit out of her and send her to an all girls military camp.
But 16 is a fine age for a boy? And believe me a good amount of 16 year old girls aren't virgins.
I do see the hypocricy in a guy having sex at 16 is a champion and a chick having sex at 16 is a "****," but i can't offer a solution, its just the way people percieve it.
Originally posted by allofyousuckkk
most nine year olds dont understand the concept of love and what it means. I'm 16 and I don't understand the concept. I've dated and had some feelings towards someone else, but not love.And yes, even if two 9 year olds are in love, they should wait at least 6 or 7 years.
If my daughter were to have sex before 16 years old (which for a girl is still to early) I would beat the everloving shit out of her and send her to an all girls military camp.
and if you have that attitude, dont expect the be close with your future kids, why would they want to get close to someone who threatens violence and isolation when they repsond to natural feelings?
My two best friends had sex. One of them told her mother and her mom said she would tell his mom. His mom simulated pregnacy by straping a bag of suger on his stomach then having him feeding a baby doll every two hours for one of her other sons when she found out he had kissed a girl. My female friend had a terible connection with her mother the other had a great relationship with his older brothers. I am dating the guy that she straped the suger to. He is still a vergin. I am still a vergin and he is 19 I turn 16 this November.
it seems parents could just teach their kids about safe sex. I understand the whole "bag of sugar" thing, but because he KISSED a girl. Come on, theres making a point and theirs making someone guilty. Its as if people dont seem to understand that if they take the proper precautions, then the chances of them getting pregnant are slim.
My parents always taught me sex after marrage, well my mom did. My dad said the same thing but he made me promise if I did have sex before marrage, to play it safe. I knew what a penis and vaginia where in preschool. My mom worked at OBGYN. The people at the day care were going to tell my mom I had been molested until she told them where she worked.