Originally posted by Laurie
lol... Who is Jackie, who is JM, and, most importantly; What's wrong with my spelling?and.. queeq. Do you look like David Caruso? If so, you got a deal! 😛
Oh, no, that was a compliment. Trust me, nothing is wrong with your spelling. JM (Jackie Malfoy) just used that avatar and couldn't spell many words right except for "nothering." She got that one right. Welcome to KMC...just don't turn out to be JM.
Originally posted by botankus
Oh, no, that was a compliment. Trust me, nothing is wrong with your spelling. JM (Jackie Malfoy) just used that avatar and couldn't spell many words right except for "nothering." She got that one right. Welcome to KMC...just don't turn out to be JM.
Ah! I promise you I won't turn out to be JM!
...and, thanks for the welcome botankus, even though I've been around KMC about a year, I think, maybe more! 😄
Re: Women, they get away with anything.
Originally posted by ((The_Anomaly))I wholeheartedly agree, it's blatantly obvious and wrong. I usually just don't think about it too much. Girls and teachers have touched me and said asked me certain questions and have gotten away with it, but not vice versa. Guys just don't care enough most of the time.
Ok here is the problem I have: Is that woman can get away with any kind of sexual discrimination or harassment simply because they are women.I REALLY noticed this about 4 weeks ago because my friend was up to my University.
Anyways he was hanging out with the girls downstairs (they were all drunk). What happened was that they were harassing him to show his penis to them (about 7 or so girls and just him as the only male)
Anyways, he was standing there and they all were harassing him, the next thing he knows they pulled his pants down! (He was wearing pajama pants). And what happened? They were all like “hahaha! Yes we just sexually harassed you and because were girls it’s not a problem, it’s just good fun”. This really pisses me off (he was very unimpressed to say the least) girls can do something like this and there are absolutely no consequences, as a matter of fact, society seems to just not care. In contrast if I was to harass a girl to take off her shit and then she didn’t so I pulled her shit off, I’d get sued for sexual harassment, or at the very least my peers would think I’m some sick perverted weirdo and the rest of the girls would never talk to me again. But girls can do it and their peers just think it’s hilariously funny.
There is a serious problem in society when it comes to this and I was wondering what you all think.
Re: Re: Women, they get away with anything.
Originally posted by Tha C-Master
I wholeheartedly agree, it's blatantly obvious and wrong. I usually just don't think about it too much. Girls and teachers have touched me and said asked me certain questions and have gotten away with it, but not vice versa. Guys just don't care enough most of the time.
OK, I will share what I know:
1. A male teacher told my "sister" that he would bump her grade from an 89 to a 90 is she kissed him, he knew her dad was strict about grades and that a B was not good.
2. In one HS I went to, some guys would walk by and slap me on the butt but they did this in a crowd and I didn't know which one did that to me, it happened one time at the mall (I was about 17), slapped me on the butt and ran with his friends. And I don't have a big butt, I don't get it and it's humilating and rude.
3. In elementry school, 2 kids did that to me, walked by and slapped me on the butt and ran really fast.
4. At a job I had doing temp work, the manager came to me about his son's math problems, I told him I would tutor his son for free, he must have misunderstood my intentions, and rubbed his hand on my back, from the upper back to the lower back, and looked me in the eyes as he did this, I changed the subject and he quickly pulled his hands away and went back to his office, never seen him again, as I was pulled away to another assignment, he was a very handsome man, married handsome man, but he was flirty.
5. In Brooklyn, I had a class mate ask me over to sign or wish him well on his casted leg, and he flashed me his private part.
He had another friend with him and I told him I was going to break the other leg. 🙂
Originally posted by Laurie
Ah! I promise you I won't turn out to be JM!...and, thanks for the welcome botankus, even though I've been around KMC about a year, I think, maybe more! 😄
I'll hold you to that. Wow, you've only had 30 posts in 17 months? Talk about quality over quantity (tell that to the Off-Topic Forum). Well, I will still extend the welcome "back" I guess.
Re: Re: Re: Women, they get away with anything.
Originally posted by Oncewhite
OK, I will share what I know:1. A male teacher told my "sister" that he would bump her grade from an 89 to a 90 is she kissed him, he knew her dad was strict about grades and that a B was not good.
2. In one HS I went to, some guys would walk by and slap me on the butt but they did this in a crowd and I didn't know which one did that to me, it happened one time at the mall (I was about 17), slapped me on the butt and ran with his friends. And I don't have a big butt, I don't get it and it's humilating and rude.
3. In elementry school, 2 kids did that to me, walked by and slapped me on the butt and ran really fast.
4. At a job I had doing temp work, the manager came to me about his son's math problems, I told him I would tutor his son for free, he must have misunderstood my intentions, and rubbed his hand on my back, from the upper back to the lower back, and looked me in the eyes as he did this, I changed the subject and he quickly pulled his hands away and went back to his office, never seen him again, as I was pulled away to another assignment, he was a very handsome man, married handsome man, but he was flirty.
5. In Brooklyn, I had a class mate ask me over to sign or wish him well on his casted leg, and he flashed me his private part.
He had another friend with him and I told him I was going to break the other leg. 🙂
Originally posted by OncewhiteWhy is it humiliating?
OK, I will share what I know:1. A male teacher told my "sister" that he would bump her grade from an 89 to a 90 is she kissed him, he knew her dad was strict about grades and that a B was not good.
2. In one HS I went to, some guys would walk by and slap me on the butt but they did this in a crowd and I didn't know which one did that to me, it happened one time at the mall (I was about 17), slapped me on the butt and ran with his friends. And I don't have a big butt, I don't get it and it's humilating and rude.
3. In elementry school, 2 kids did that to me, walked by and slapped me on the butt and ran really fast.
4. At a job I had doing temp work, the manager came to me about his son's math problems, I told him I would tutor his son for free, he must have misunderstood my intentions, and rubbed his hand on my back, from the upper back to the lower back, and looked me in the eyes as he did this, I changed the subject and he quickly pulled his hands away and went back to his office, never seen him again, as I was pulled away to another assignment, he was a very handsome man, married handsome man, but he was flirty.
5. In Brooklyn, I had a class mate ask me over to sign or wish him well on his casted leg, and he flashed me his private part.
He had another friend with him and I told him I was going to break the other leg. 🙂
I should say that it only happened 2-3 times in my life, and I have seen guys do this to other girls (within the same age group).
I just thought they were tacky and had to verbally threaten two of them, it's not cool, but that's just an example of how some guys do get out of line too. Of course, getting kicked in the balls is a "verbally threatening" way of being left alone.
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
when the guy flashed you his little willy, you should have pointed and laughed. then told everyone in earshot what he did and how small it was.
I think I did laugh at him???, we were in the 4th grade, and his friend called me into the house of the broken legged classmate, he told me that Joe-whatever his name needed prayer, and I remembered him from school and decided to stop by really fast to pray for his leg...for PRAYER...., and the next thing I know, after praying for his leg, he told me he wanted show me something, I was mad 😠 , omg, i was sooo glad to move away from that place!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't recall if I laughed at him but I know I threatened his other leg and I was so pissed he believed that I could be that crazy. I told him as a boy it was his job to protect us girls, not flash us.