Originally posted by jinzin
ummmm nah I reeeeally don't think it works that way.......I mean I can ACT as cool as I want...but it don't make much of a difference when I'm obviously gettin distracted by ninja turtle stuff in the toy section of the super market/mall/store.....
a 50% chance? not even....man it's hilarious girls will admit to liking me....I ask them out...they say no...it never fails.....then the girls I hook up with are always the psychos......damn.....oh well....
I can't just think myself into coolness....it doesn't work like that....i can ACT cool......but that ain't me...
Originally posted by jinzin
a 50% chance? not even....man it's hilarious girls will admit to liking me....I ask them out...they say no...it never fails.....then the girls I hook up with are always the psychos......damn.....oh well....I can't just think myself into coolness....it doesn't work like that....i can ACT cool......but that ain't me...
Originally posted by Electrocat
ah, dont be so hard on yrself jinzinyou'll get the hang of it. cool is just other peoples perspective of you, you get other people to hang with you, they think you cool.
You hang out with yr nerd buddies, they think your cool, cos you got a lot in common etc.
The rules.
1. Posting on a message board automatically makes you a nerd. (sorry. I am a nerd as well.)
2. Girls do claim that looks aren't everything but that is a lie. Looks have a lot to do with it and girls are almost as shallow as guys are; most of them just don’t admit it.
3. Making fun of a girl even in jest is usually never "cool". Compliments work real nice but don't be a friggin' stalker.
4. Read the Five Primary love languages by David Chapman. It is a good book.
5. A lot of girls are self conscious about themselves. Why do they put on makeup? Why do they spend so much time on their appearance? You don’t see me putting cover up on…I think I look just fine.
I know this average looking and slightly over weight black dude. He attracts all these chics and I am taken back by it. I don't know how he does it but he does it. He goal is to mount as many girls as possible. There is always an exception.
I am a nerd but I was so popular in school that I was given the title a legend...a first for my school. Being a nerd does not make you an outcast.
I do admit that I have been turned down 3 times in my life when I requested a date. One actually had a boyfriend that I didn't know about, the other was engaged I didn't know about it either. (She flirted so friggin' much that I thought the end of the world was tomorrow after every time I talked to her… so I said what the hey and she said no way and I said that's gay.) The third was just a really nice lesbian...man she was sooo hot….
But anyway...confidence is the key.
Originally posted by dadudemon
The rules.1. Posting on a message board automatically makes you a nerd. (sorry. I am a nerd as well.)
2. Girls do claim that looks aren't everything but that is a lie. Looks have a lot to do with it and girls are almost as shallow as guys are; most of them just don’t admit it.
3. Making fun of a girl even in jest is usually never "cool". Compliments work real nice but don't be a friggin' stalker.
4. Read the Five Primary love languages by David Chapman. It is a good book.
5. A lot of girls are self conscious about themselves. Why do they put on makeup? Why do they spend so much time on their appearance? You don’t see me putting cover up on…I think I look just fine.I know this average looking and slightly over weight black dude. He attracts all these chics and I am taken back by it. I don't know how he does it but he does it. He goal is to mount as many girls as possible. There is always an exception.
I am a nerd but I was so popular in school that I was given the title a legend...a first for my school. Being a nerd does not make you an outcast.
I do admit that I have been turned down 3 times in my life when I requested a date. One actually had a boyfriend that I didn't know about, the other was engaged I didn't know about it either. (She flirted so friggin' much that I thought the end of the world was tomorrow after every time I talked to her… so I said what the hey and she said no way and I said that's gay.) The third was just a really nice lesbian...man she was sooo hot….
But anyway...confidence is the key.