Why cant i get a girlfriend?

what happens when you go on a date, ken.?

Originally posted by Electrocat
what happens when you go on a date, ken.?

I've never been out on a true date...unless you count the time I rented a hotel room for me and my girlfriend and went to a movie.

We'd always just hang out at home.

hmm... ok what do you do when you and a chick are at home?

Watch movies, talk with friends, make-out, just hold each other and talk.

"ok what do you do when you and a chick are at home?"

fall asleep....

Originally posted by Ken Kenobi
Watch movies, talk with friends, make-out, just hold each other and talk.

and you wanna know why you can't get a date?

nah im kidding

you've got to change your attitude, go to a singles club, dance, drink, hang...

Originally posted by Electrocat
and you wanna know why you can't get a date?

nah im kidding

you've got to change your attitude, go to a singles club, dance, drink, hang...

I'm not the one having trouble finding a girlfriend though. I'm not looking for one. When I do meet someone and I start having feelings, I let them know. Like I already did recently. She knows I have feelings for her.

I do go hang with friends, I go out drinking occasionally (not much, just occasionally).

Singles clubs? Seriously, I'm not that desperate. And I don't dance, I have no moves, and I'm not interested in it anyways.

hey gen u mind if i tell u this it might be a bit rude but well u cant get a girlfriend because u dont want one i dont see the harm in askin a girl out atmost she might say no and stop callin urself a nerd the only person who's a nerd is who thinks doin wat he likes is wrong but u act ike ur proud of bein a nerd tht means u like ur belifs tht also means ur not a nerd i bet u can get a girlfriend if u ask her in the right way

Originally posted by snehin
hey gen u mind if i tell u this it might be a bit rude but well u cant get a girlfriend because u dont want one i dont see the harm in askin a girl out atmost she might say no and stop callin urself a nerd the only person who's a nerd is who thinks doin wat he likes is wrong but u act ike ur proud of bein a nerd tht means u like ur belifs tht also means ur not a nerd i bet u can get a girlfriend if u ask her in the right way

yes. Nobody will think you're a nerd if you don't keep callin' yourself one. Just be cool, go this girl you dig, ask her out, see what happens.

lol bribe her with chocolate

Originally posted by snehin
hey gen u mind if i tell u this it might be a bit rude but well u cant get a girlfriend because u dont want one i dont see the harm in askin a girl out atmost she might say no and stop callin urself a nerd the only person who's a nerd is who thinks doin wat he likes is wrong but u act ike ur proud of bein a nerd tht means u like ur belifs tht also means ur not a nerd i bet u can get a girlfriend if u ask her in the right way

Agreed.

I am proud of being a Star Wars fan myself. Everyone who knows me, knows that I am heavily into it. If that makes me a nerd, oh well.

It has never caused problems for me. In fact a couple of the girls I have gone out with thought it was "cute" that I considered myself a nerd. I would proudly say I am a geek and they would either say: "No you're not" or "So, I don't care about that, I have feelings for you, because you are who you are."

Originally posted by Electrocat
yes. Nobody will think you're a nerd if you don't keep callin' yourself one. Just be cool, go this girl you dig, ask her out, see what happens.

lol bribe her with chocolate

Originally posted by Ken Kenobi
Agreed.

I am proud of being a Star Wars fan myself. Everyone who knows me, knows that I am heavily into it. If that makes me a nerd, oh well.

It has never caused problems for me. In fact a couple of the girls I have gone out with thought it was "cute" that I considered myself a nerd. I would proudly say I am a geek and they would either say: "No you're not" or "So, I don't care about that, I have feelings for you, because you are who you are."

yeah then yr nerd wrinkles will start to show, and your computer posture gets worse with time... 😖tick out tongue:

im kidding hey

Originally posted by snehin
if u call urself a nerd or a geek u are one is my theory

Like I said, I call myself one. I'm proud of who I am. If a girl can't accept me for me, then she's not deserving enough to be with me. I would never change myself just to be with someone.

hey gen there are advantages to not havin a girlfriend trust me i know i had one till she dumped me it sucks when she dumpes u and when u hav a girlfriend u've dated for a while u can get really hurt

Originally posted by Ken Kenobi
Like I said, I call myself one. I'm proud of who I am. If a girl can't accept me for me, then she's not deserving enough to be with me. I would never change myself just to be with someone.

its like sayin ur ugly only if u belive ur ugly are u ugly same principle here

ken, you won't HAVE a girlfriend to accept you for who you are if you keep calling yourself a nerd.

I'm sure you're an OK dude, so stop callin yrself a nerd and chill out.
Your going on as if just because you say your a nerd you think you'll be mistreated or something. It aint like that.

You are as cool as you say you are, and as you think you are, and that's the truth.

Originally posted by Electrocat
ken, you won't HAVE a girlfriend to accept you for who you are if you keep calling yourself a nerd.

I'm sure you're an OK dude, so stop callin yrself a nerd and chill out.
Your going on as if just because you say your a nerd you think you'll be mistreated or something. It aint like that.

You are as cool as you say you are, and as you think you are, and that's the truth.

Originally posted by snehin
and if a girl cant accept tht her loss is wat i say

yes, good point, but a girl likes a dude with self confidence