Connections

Started by Jedi_KnightAlly15 pages

why?

Probably best not to go into it but I don't believe it was aimed at you..

fair enough. 🙂

Fi you are 1 SMART cookie

Originally posted by Mistah DEVIL
Fi you are 1 SMART cookie

and you know I had every right to tell him..

Originally posted by Fionnuala
and you know I had every right to tell him..

What's done is done.

*moving right along*

Originally posted by Mistah DEVIL
What's done is done.

*moving right along*


'whats done is done' ?...is that why you made that comment then?...

Originally posted by Uneeklyconfused
i understand what you mean Mr D...iv been doing it myself lately ... then i end up feeling like i have said tooo much ...kinda open my soul....

leaving me vulnerable .....not a nice feeling on my part !!!

its not a real problem tho i hav noticed the person that i have been doing it with ( not in that sense 😮 ) ...he ..doesnt share back ..like hes guarding ..i respect that completly ... and i understand why he does it ., i do trust him and i feel that the trust is returned .. tho i dont wanna push him into anything ...

i dont wanna force him to open up to me if he dont wanna ...

but now you know too much so im gunna have to blow you up
🥷

blowup


My friend [who shall remain nameless] is the way you describe your guy to be. He does it intentionally so that ppl won't have anything to use against him. He even kept MAJOR things from me that I later foound out through various people. Okay so it was only 2 people.

*adding to my 1st post in this thread*
I knew this girl who I used to talk to over a 3 week period. We became friends and told each other personal and private things. She told me something that happened to her that she couldn't even tell her bf/soon to be fiance. I guess because he put pressure on her to tell him. Where as I just listened and didn't judge or try to get info out of her. I was so totally surprised that she would share something like that with me. I guess it's okay because I shared with her as well. Not nearly as much though. I have only been able to tell 1 person EVERYTHING, but I have what I feel to be strong connections with certain ppl I have only recently met.

i trust a limited amount of people for various reason...thoes that i do 'open up' to ....they , know very little ..not enougt to ...conspire againts me ,

they mostly disscuss me not telling them anything ...

and they wonder why i dont trust them 😉

oh , bout they guy ...meh .. no bigy i like the mysteriousness of secrecy ...

he always surprises me so ...😊

Originally posted by Uneeklyconfused
i trust a limited amount of people for various reason...thoes that i do 'open up' to ....they , know very little ..not enougt to ...conspire againts me ,

they mostly disscuss me not telling them anything ...

and they wonder why i dont trust them 😉


😆
Originally posted by Uneeklyconfused
oh , bout they guy ...meh .. no bigy i like the mysteriousness of secrecy ...

he always surprises me so ...😊


that's always a plus

lol...yea...thanks 😛

its a bonus in my books ..i kinda dont want him pouring his guts out to me ....straight away .... that would put mt off him ..

but hes a nice guy

im glad he doesnt tell me everything ....give me sumthing to talk to him about

"why dont you tell me anything?"

lol

There'll be times when I meet someone and I'll definitely feel an instant connection with them....but it takes me a loooooong time to trust someone enough to fully open up to them.

Originally posted by Lana
There'll be times when I meet someone and I'll definitely feel an instant connection with them....but it takes me a loooooong time to trust someone enough to fully open up to them.

why such a looooooooog time?

Re: Connections

Originally posted by Mistah DEVIL
I was thinking about this for what ever reason and decided to start a thread about it. Have you ever found yourself opening up to someone you really don't know that well and can't figure out why? I have a lot recently. It's like you connect with the person and get this urge to share stuff about yourself with them. You can sometimes tell that person things you could never tell some of your closest friends. Well, I think by now you get my point so let's get this thread going already.

*clicks 'Submit New Thread' button*

i don't exactly know how to explain it but i know what it is

Originally posted by GuitarBunny
i don't exactly know how to explain it but i know what it is

so have you had such a connection w/some1?

Originally posted by Mistah DEVIL
so have you had such a connection w/some1?

yeah
this one old lady on a bus while I was going to school
she was probably more understanding than my friends would have been 🙂

I bearly open up to my close friends. I'm just not the kinda person who tlks about their feelings and what they think. I try some times but it doesn't work out.

Originally posted by GuitarBunny
yeah
this one old lady on a bus while I was going to school
she was probably more understanding than my friends would have been 🙂

I have never had an instant connection with someone old. Older but not old.
Originally posted by Haru-Donovan
I bearly open up to my close friends. I'm just not the kinda person who tlks about their feelings and what they think. I try some times but it doesn't work out.

Do you try bc you WANT to or bc someone asks you something?

Yes I have.My boyfriend I feel I could tell him anything that is going around in my head.and sometimes my dad.JM