im a pretty stubburn person. when it comesto 'opening up' and being honest... i am guarded , i automatically go in defence mode, not just for my protection but for their's aswell ....
i cant be completely honest with people (not that i lie excessivly) i just dont tell the whole picture, (unless specifically asked to)
(for thoes i talk to , i havnt lied to you guys bout anything ...!!! )
instant connection, i get with older people ...older myself.the oldest being 32 now, ..partly because i believe that i can learn from them....
Originally posted by Uneeklyconfused
i understand what you mean Mr D...iv been doing it myself lately ... then i end up feeling like i have said tooo much ...kinda open my soul....leaving me vulnerable .....not a nice feeling on my part !!!
its not a real problem tho i hav noticed the person that i have been doing it with ( not in that sense 😮 ) ...he ..doesnt share back ..like hes guarding ..i respect that completly ... and i understand why he does it ., i do trust him and i feel that the trust is returned .. tho i dont wanna push him into anything ...
i dont wanna force him to open up to me if he dont wanna ...
but now you know too much so im gunna have to blow you up
🥷blowup
^^ ✅
What I want to know is how do you get someone to know that they can trust and open up to you, especially if you're afraid to do the same? 😕