Originally posted by GuitarBunny
i meant she was older then me
late 30's maybe 😮
Originally posted by Lana
I'm really shy and have a hard time trusting people and opening up.
me
Originally posted by Tassie
^^ ✅
What I want to know is how do you get someone to know that they can trust and open up to you, especially if you're afraid to do the same? 😕
Originally posted by Tassie
Lol, no, i didn't mean that targetted at you 😛
I mean I can relate to you in that respect, and I don't know what to do about my situation 😕
yes i know ..
that was my answer .....
im complicacted ...thats why i find it hard ...i trust very few people ..
as they say 'your friends are your enimies with secret identies'
so i guess i live by that ....
only thoes close to you have enoguh 'ammuniton' to hurt you emotionally
talk to me for awhile and you'll have your answer
I don't usually trust people much. 🥷
Originally posted by Uneeklyconfused
yes i know ..that was my answer .....
im complicacted ...thats why i find it hard ...i trust very few people ..
as they say 'your friends are your enimies with secret identies'
so i guess i live by that ....
only thoes close to you have enoguh 'ammuniton' to hurt you emotionally
yeah, especially that last part is so true 😮 That's why me and uhhh.. this person.. are afraid to open up to each other. If you really care about someone enough, should you give them the chance, or just forget about it b/c you're afraid you'll grow apart again? bag
Originally posted by Tassie
I don't usually trust people much. 🥷If you really care about someone enough, should you give them the chance, or just forget about it b/c you're afraid you'll grow apart again? bag
Originally posted by Mistah DEVIL
I dont pick who I trust. I tell ppl things in specific moments. I could tell some1 I 've known for a week something I haven't told a friend of 7 years (bc I have). If I can be ME with some1 even if only for a five min. in that 5 mins. I could prolly tell them anything. If you really want someone to knwo something even if its hard to explain all you have to do is try cuz believe me the hardest thing is starting. Don't be afraid to seem like your rambling bc somewhere inside you are the words. Even if ppl come and go as they have in my life for those moments that they're a part of your life you have some them to to share your thoughts with. I dont even know if I'm making any sense so I'll just shut up.
You're making sense. 😄 As opposed to me when I start rambling..
But it just kinda.. doesnt make sense to me to open up to someone if there's a chance of them leaving eventually just like everyone else. 'Tis why I find it hard to trust people shybag
Originally posted by Uneeklyconfused
my advice to you ( i gues we are in the same position) .... tell them as much as you feel comfortable ... not enough to hurt you, but enough to make them feel able to open up to yougive as much as you get in return.....
Both of you guys make sense. Thanks for the advice 👆 And I hope your situation works out for the best as well ✅