Originally posted by illadelph12
Jinzin, committing an act against someone's free will is hostile. If I don't permit you to use the sedative on me, and you do it against my wishes, it's a hostile act. Regardless of whether I was acting unruly or not. From your perspective as the person using the sedative you're doing it to calm me down. As the person that the sedative is being administered to, you're drugging me against my will so that you can halt my action against my will. That's hostile. Even though your intentions, from your perspective, aren't hostile, to the party at the receiving end, they are. It's all about perspective.
That's where I disagree. I don't find it to be a hostile act. You define hostile as any act that infringes on someone else's freedoms, I define hostile as something that forces them into a fight or flight response. Drugging someone does NOT force them into a fight or flight response, drugging someone (Based on the useage and the drug, in this case a sedative to calm them down) is being used to calm them down. In this case specifaclly, for the good of both parties. So by trying to help us both, me by shutting you up, and you by keeping you from making an ass of yourself, I'm becoming hostile? In no way shape or form and I attempting to enact a fight or flight response, if you DO enter a fight or flight response, it was not my will, it was your own reaction, and thus you OVERreacted to something that was not a hostile act. If you laugh in my face, and I get mad at you, are you being hostile? You're insulting me against my will, but you did not mean to cause me harm, hell, you could just be laughing because it's funny, yet I am overreacting because I'm perceiving your laughter as an insult.
Synposis - An act should only be considered hostile (In my opinion) if the 'hostile' party is trying to cause you to enter this fight or flight response (I.E. harm to you) Many people overreact to situations, and perceive things as hostile acts, when they were not inteded to be. If I was drugged to calm me down, yes I would feel that it was a hostile act, but in retrospect, I know it wasn't a hostile act.