Originally posted by AdventChild
feeling good is a side affect... you don't do it to FEEL good you do it well at least i do it intending to do it for them for nothing in return...and if i recieve something ok fine if i don't ok fine it doesn't make a difference to me but i don't do good deeds so i can feel good, i do it for them, feeling good just happens i don't intended to feel good about doing those things nor do i expect to feel good about it...it's a feeling it just comes, it's not like i want the feeling to be there, i really can't help what i feel, but i can help what i do for others, and that's why i do it...not for me but for them...
Okay let me rephrase, you don't do it to feel good. You do it to not feel bad about not helping them. Helping them can you make you feel bad. But somehow you feel better about yourself because you tried, because you won't to stop there pain. You just want to prevent them from being hurt and you do whatever you can to create that. Because it would make you feel bad about yourself otherwise.