i had a relation ship from here in texas to tennessee....and another in california, but the one in cali died in like 3 weeks...one in tennessee was lost like 2 months ago which lasted a year and 2 months cry bi*ch cheated on me at the last month...her friend was keeping an eye out to c if she was gonna ever do it...then the f*ckin last month....
yeah, from my experience long distance relationships don't work. at least for me. My girlfriend went on vacation for a month and came back and broke up with me. turns out she had a boyfriend over there and didn't want to hide it anymore. you said he was your first real boyfriend so that would explain why you think you "Love him so much". its always like that the first time. I thought i loved my first girlfriend but look what happened to me.....
Originally posted by Kumaryeah i thought the same thing but like 4 girlfriends later (lol) i found out it was just me likin her....but my ex the yr and 2 months...i loved her 🙁
yeah, from my experience long distance relationships don't work. at least for me. My girlfriend went on vacation for a month and came back and broke up with me. turns out she had a boyfriend over there and didn't want to hide it anymore. you said he was your first real boyfriend so that would explain why you think you "Love him so much". its always like that the first time. I thought i loved my first girlfriend but look what happened to me.....
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
If the two people are truly willing to dedicate themselves to making it work over however long it takes, any relationship can work. Regardless of distance.Proof? You see people meeting each other over the net and getting married for life. The only time long distance relationships fail is if one half meets someone else, gives up or you both decide it's not working. Much like a short distance relationship.
The only obstacle is trust. If you can trust your partner to be faithful (again, as with any relationship), it can work.
Physical contact or lack thereof, sucks. No getting around that or lying about it, it sucks. Sometimes having it here and there when you DO meet, makes it worse. But it also makes you feel f*cking determined. I know, I've been there.
45 minutes to me is a ride to Blockbuster video. No offence, but your relationship is paper if it takes that much of a distance to make things hard.
-AC
Originally posted by crazy_shadow
yeah i thought the same thing but like 4 girlfriends later (lol) i found out it was just me likin her....but my ex the yr and 2 months...i loved her 🙁
Jesus, you call a 50 minute drive a long-distance relationship? My aunt Dee and mom are bestest friends over a distance like that!
Here's a tip, get over it.. And if states or something apart then come here and whine. Untill then shutup and be thankful you have somebody who cares about you. I swear, kids these days..
Originally posted by Spelljammer
Jesus, you call a 50 minute drive a long-distance relationship? My aunt Dee and mom are bestest friends over a distance like that!Here's a tip, get over it.. And if states or something apart [b]then
come here and whine. Untill then shutup and be thankful you have somebody who cares about you. I swear, kids these days.. [/B]
Yeah 45 minutes is like no distance at all... I'm on the bus for that long in the morning 😖
Originally posted by DanieLs_4_Ever
No 😐
Will I Ever? No 😐
Daniel and I are 20 minutes away, that's as far as distance will get between us..my parents are planted here in this house until the day they die and Im not going anywhere till I graduate and get a job and shit so im here to stay for a while as well. And the only reason Daniel would move is if his parents got divorced (long stories..) and all that. So yeah...we're stuck together forever...pretty soon we'll be livin together when I graduate next year. w00t w00t.
edit:Dont get mad at me for saying this, but I think ld relationships arent worth it because A. There's no physical contact, but I know you said you may get to see each other on the weekends..If you're me..that isnt enough. We see each other at school everyday and that isnt even enough..let alone 1-2 days on the weekend. Plus B. Where the hell is the sex and playing around, man? Lol...and C. Where's he gonna be when you get lonely or have a bad day and you need someone to hold you and tell you everything's alright?
Well, I can't believe I'm saying this but I'm kind of in a L-D relationship, myself right now. His name is Dale [I know his full name but will not specify] and we have millions of things in common, including the fact that we're romantic. 😍 We've planned a lot of stuff together and he will be coming down here before the year is over, though it pretty much just began so that leaves a while for him to get down here. 🙁 I have never seen him before in person but I have talked to him over the phone and he has the sweetest voice ever. To be quite honest he's the only thing holding me together [and not goin' crazy lol] right now because all of the guys down here seem to be pricks and seem to get a kick out of hurting girls and Dale admits that he wants to go on a killing spree [not really] on these guys that have hurt me. We're still in the process of planning his visit and it is very very frustrating. Someday I plan on moving down there, though I'm not very high on the thought of leaving home, and spending my life with him. We've planned a lot of that already 🙂. He has a fantastic job and seems to have the same kind of friends and interests/hobbies/aspirations as I do, so we are pretty good to go! I can't wait for him to meet all of my friends and hopefully my family won't be annoying over it either.