Condoms/Oral/Anal are a sin

My boyfriend, wanted to have sex with me, so I told him to use a Condom, and well he said it's a sin, because who ever uses a Condom, is breaking the true purpose of sex, witch is to have children. By using a Condom he said it means you just using it for fun and have no ittention of having children. I said...ok, but I dont want kids right now, and he replied, then you will have to wait for sex....ok I said once again. So I suggested Oral Sex..then he said, that is also a sin, because the "Penis" is not suppose to go in ones mouth or go in anal, because again it stops the real purpose of sex, and only is meant for the Virgina, to make kids, when one is married only. I am mad, because he is a really nice guy, but is to religious, and I don't plan on getting married any time soon. I am way to young, and just want to experiment, but no everything is religious.

Well is he right or wrong ?

Originally posted by WhiteSnowAngel
My boyfriend, wanted to have sex with me, so I told him to use a Condom, and well he said it's a sin, because who ever uses a Condom, is breaking the true purpose of sex, witch is to have children. By using a Condom he said it means you just using it for fun and have no ittention of having children. I said...ok, but I dont want kids right now, and he replied, then you will have to wait for sex....ok I said once again. So I suggested Oral Sex..then he said, that is also a sin, because the "Penis" is not suppose to go in ones mouth or go in anal, because again it stops the real purpose of sex, and only is meant for the Virgina, to make kids, when one is married only. I am mad, because he is a really nice guy, but is to religious, and I don't plan on getting married any time soon. I am way to young, and just want to experiment, but no everything is religious.

Well is he right or wrong ?

If you just want to experiment, go down town and pick up a couple of hood rats. Knock about 20-30 off, get checked for "pelvic infections", and you'll be fine for awhile.

He's only right according to what he believes..... some religions believe in sex as an act of worship, rather than of procreation (as in the Tantra of Hinduism, for example...)... personally, I believe in freedom of choice, and that all relationships should be based on a mutual willingness to compromise... if that isn't so, then the relationship is doomed anyway...

I think that teaching started out as more a Catholic teaching...Not to waste seed...and I think the story comes from the Bible story of Tamar.

So the question is "Is it wrong to have sex if its not for having children ?"

He is religious... and religions believes in things, so he is supposed to believe in that, now truth is a separate concept from religion.... if you want the truth about that question, then you will have to "think" about it... religions don´t think about questions they believe in answers for the questions. Religions think they can dictate what is right, or wrong and sometimes they make us think that a particular thing like sex is not associated with spirituality, or God, if someone wants to have answers for what is right, or wrong, spiritual or not, or even what is God, then that person must "think", not being religious.

What I think is that the purpose of sex is procreation, if we didn´t need to procreate sex would not exist, but that doesn´t mean its wrong to have sex if its not for procreation, you can have it for experience... why the experience is wrong ? Nonsense... you could even give a spiritual meaning to casual sex if you want, and create whole new religion based on it.

think about this....If there was no pleasure from it...would you really do it?????....I'm mean think about it.. 😇 😑

Yup... sex would be not so important if there was no pleasure from it.
When people decide to have children, sex could be a problem like "Oh... damn.. we will need to have sex." at least there wouldn´t be unwanted children 😂

Um...? WTF? He claims his desire not to use a condom is based on his religious beliefs...but ignores the fact that he isn't married to you? That makes ZERO sense.

Originally posted by debbiejo
think about this....If there was no pleasure from it...would you really do it?????....I'm mean think about it.. 😇 😑

How much fun is child birth?

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
How much fun is child birth?

Less than in sex, thats whats the majority think.

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
Um...? WTF? He claims his desire not to use a condom is based on his religious beliefs...but ignores the fact that he isn't married to you? That makes ZERO sense.

Supposedly, he thinks he is going to be with me long enough to get married.

I wouldn't have sex with him anyway without a condom. He is uncircumsized, and it looks gross, so with a condom, it will not show.

Originally posted by Atlantis001
Less than in sex, thats whats the majority think.

I don't want to come across as an *******, but I honestly don't understand anything you say.

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
How much fun is child birth?

giljotiini

About this much fun...... 😑

Originally posted by WhiteSnowAngel
Supposedly, he thinks he is going to be with me long enough to get married.

I wouldn't have sex with him anyway without a condom. He is uncircumsized, and it looks gross, so with a condom, it will not show.

That doesn't matter...it still makes no sense. You do understand that, don't you? He's bullshitting you, so don't fall for it.

Originally posted by debbiejo
giljotiini

About this much fun...... 😑

That's my point. It's all a continuing theme.

Originally posted by debbiejo
giljotiini

About this much fun...... 😑

I meant something like this.

Yup, your boyfriend is conning you.....That's not real love....It's conditional....It's an old trick.

and BTW....I think babies should be born the size of hamsters...If god loved us god would of done that... 😄

Originally posted by debbiejo

and BTW....I think babies should be born the size of hamsters...If god loved us god would of done that... 😄

Yea... I understand what you mean.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Yup, your boyfriend is conning you.....That's not real love....It's conditional....It's an old trick.

and BTW....I think babies should be born the size of hamsters...If god loved us god would of done that... 😄

LOL...that would make sense.

See...god doesn't love us......and god only makes sex feel good so you'll do it....otherwise........ 😑 ...who really would....hahahahaha