WhiteSnowAngel You are CHILD FFS, why are u rushing into having sex. Cross your damn legs and wait.
If you are sooo immature that you are freaked out by a foreskin, and IS willing to have sex without a condom, BECAUSE your Bf doesn't want to, then girl LIFE is GONNA come and slap you up silly.
In the other thread, you said that he loves you, If he is willing to get you pregnant at 15, then he doesn't love you. He's punk, and you're a fool to stay in this relationship.
This has nothing to do with religion, it has more to do with something more fundamental...........called SENCE!!!!!
Originally posted by fini
[b]WhiteSnowAngel You are CHILD FFS, why are u rushing into having sex. Cross your damn legs and wait.If you are sooo immature that you are freaked out by a foreskin, and IS willing to have sex without a condom, BECAUSE your Bf doesn't want to, then girl LIFE is GONNA come and slap you up silly.
In the other thread, you said that he loves you, If he is willing to get you pregnant at 15, then he doesn't love you. He's punk, and you're a fool to stay in this relationship.
This has nothing to do with religion, it has more to do with something more fundamental...........called SENCE!!!!! [/B]
It's none of my business, but I have to agree with fini. You don't have to have sex to love someone. If someone really loves you, they will wait, and if they don't wait, then you know that they really didn't love you. You don't have to believe us, ask an older girl friend, someone at least in their 20s. She will tell you, what we are telling you.
Lol, I'm in my 20's,
SnowAngel, a lot of us are going to tell you the same thing, and its not because we are uptight or anything, WE have seen people get into trouble before( maybe someone of us HAVE been in that kind problem too) SO we kinda know what we are talking about.
Lol If you were a few years older I would have something else to say.
Honey, if you're 15 thats actually illegal and your boyfriend can get charged with statutory rape, so DON'T DO IT. If he says he's too religious to have sex with a condom, then he should really be too religious to have sex before marriage, or he should at least wait til you are ready. Even without the risk of pregnancy, you could still get an STI/STD, and its just not worth it. If he dumps you because you refuse to have unprotected sex with him, he wasn't worth it anyway.
Honey, if you're 15 thats actually illegal and your boyfriend can get charged with statutory rapedepends on the country......and I see the starter of this thread is a Yank so yes it is actually illigal...........how old is the boyfriend though if he is also just 15 could it still be considered statutory rape?
I'm not entirely sure, I only did AS LAw... I have a feeling there is some law they are trying to get changed, which currently has either no legal age of consent for boys, or its sposd to be about 14 or something... It's an awful law, it might have been hanged already, it was about three years ago i was studying it. i think the logic behind it was that boys can't really be forced to have sex unless by another boy... (( gay sex consent is 18 I think)) and also that there is no real consequence to underage sex for boys, they are not expected to help with any offspring etc...
As I said, it was being changed when I heard about it, and I only vaguely remember it, it might have been changed by now...
I'd be giving you blue balls too, but for far more realistic reasons.. Your boyfriend seems nice but far too brainwashed by this overhyped idea that just doesn't really apply to real life. Sex was made to be enjoyed, enjoyed by two people who want to bond eternaly.
And that's precisely why I wouldn't do it either. Not because God would be pissed. But because I would be pissed that I go and give my body and soul to you and then you breakup with me three months later.. I don't want to "mess around". I want commitment, and reassurance that I have someone to turn too..
Sex was made to be enjoyed, enjoyed by two people who want to bond eternaly.sex was originally for reproducing then we learned to enjoy it.....when certain religions came along it was "boxed" as a means that should occure to those who bond for live...............if the time is right and BOTH!!!!!!! feel equally strong for doing it do it, if one party tag along because of presure or they think the other part wants you too and would think less of you if you dont then DONT!!! do it