On Homosexuality & Religion [Merged]

The person I hate believes he owns everyone, and he takes advantage of everyone and I'm the only person in the same crowd than him that stands up to him. He knows I hate him, he doesn't care. He ignores me and I ignore him his attitude towards everyone hasn't changed a bit since I started hating him.

There is a major difference between hating someone you KNOW VERY WELL...and hating a person you dont know very well, or hating a group of people based on stereotypes without getting to know them.

If this person really is taht cruel, and you know him THAT WELL....then yes it is your right to hate him all you want. You should really cut him out of your life though, and tell your freinds that you cannot hang with this person any longer. HOLDING on to hatred is bad for your health. VERY BAD.......kick him out of your life as FAST as you can ok ?

And the influence of someone ignoring or hating someone could be good too.

How so ?

And frankly ANY attitude whatsoever and any action could change the way someone thinks or behaves, ignoring or hating is nothing special... Hate blindes me just as much as joy or happiness.

Yes but joy and happiness have a positive effect as you will only respond to people in a positive way. It's like they say "Love is Blind"...when you love someone you don't see any "flaws" infact, you think all thier "flaws" are actually strengths and you love them AND thier "flaws"

Hate is ALSO BLIND....it makes you see ONLY the negative and disregard the positive. Again holding on to Hatred or Anger is very bad for your health. That kind of thing can result in cancer if you let it consume you. Please understand that.

Hate can only make you feel good for soo long.....

Hate is a useful tool like any emotion. Hate is a great motivator, but its best (like any emoition) when its controlled and applied to an end.

There are many types of hate. Broat hate is usually unproductive. But hate can be much more specific and localized.

All human emotionas are valuable and all should be used.

Originally posted by Alliance
the bottom line is homosexuality doesnt hurt anyone. Religious rules should regulate behaviors that hurt people. So I somewhat agree with your interpretation.

Yours AJ, you presented a rational interpretation that does justice to both sides. I admire that.

Your sig, like mine, shows shirtless muscular males in heroic positions. There is some element of sexualt attraction there. It's not gay, as you put it. I'm just saying that you think men touching eachother is discusting, but you have no problem brandishing haflnaked and spandex clad men on your sig.

Originally posted by Alliance
Yours AJ, you presented a rational interpretation that does justice to both sides. I admire that.

Your sig, like mine, shows shirtless muscular males in heroic positions. There is some element of sexualt attraction there. It's not gay, as you put it. I'm just saying that you think men touching eachother is discusting, but you have no problem brandishing haflnaked and spandex clad men on your sig.

😆 Many people can be narrowminded, it nice not to do that. Relaizing other people have valid opinons is very important. You showed that.

Yeah AJ is pretty reasonable with his debates.

He's atleast open to the ability that he may be wrong, and i totally admire that, because thats the same open mindedness i carry.

wow thanks guys best reviews of me yet im all emotional lol

il be 10 minutes im gonan have bath hopefuuly you lot will still be here im enjoying my self lol

Originally posted by Alliance
Hate is a useful tool like any emotion. Hate is a great motivator, but its best (like any emoition) when its controlled and applied to an end.

There are many types of hate. Broat hate is usually unproductive. But hate can be much more specific and localized.

All human emotionas are valuable and all should be used.

Hate is a powerful emotion and it is difficult to control. I am not a master at controlling my emotions, so I stay away from hate. Best not to play with fire, it time you will get burned. I should start a thread on this topic, because there seems to be an interest. 😄

But, if can control fire, you're definately awesome!

I'd say that your sexual orientation is your own sexual preference and shouldn't be judged by anyone else. Being gay, lesibian, bisexual, etc. is only a sin in the eyes of those who like to judge. Judging isn't good in any form in my opinion. It just starts trouble and it also brings hate and can destroy people's lives.
Same goes for religion. There are several different religions and religious beliefs in this world that shouldn't criticized because it is someone else's opinion on life. Those who criticize what other's believe are just as bad as the way they act, immature.

Originally posted by Alliance
But, if can control fire, you're definately awesome!

Originally posted by Shakyamunison
...Hate is dangerous, only a true Bodhisattva can us hate for good.

If being gay is a sin then why do Catholic clergy have a thing for little boys.....OH yeah, that must be different that's pedophilia... 😉

😆

And then conservatives try to suggest that there is a huge similiarity between Gays and Pedifiles, while pedifilia has never been so publicly exposed until this Church incident.

Originally posted by Lord Urizen
[B]The person I hate believes he owns everyone, and he takes advantage of everyone and I'm the only person in the same crowd than him that stands up to him. He knows I hate him, he doesn't care. He ignores me and I ignore him his attitude towards everyone hasn't changed a bit since I started hating him.

There is a major difference between hating someone you KNOW VERY WELL...and hating a person you dont know very well, or hating a group of people based on stereotypes without getting to know them.

If this person really is taht cruel, and you know him THAT WELL....then yes it is your right to hate him all you want. You should really cut him out of your life though, and tell your freinds that you cannot hang with this person any longer. HOLDING on to hatred is bad for your health. VERY BAD.......kick him out of your life as FAST as you can ok ?

And the influence of someone ignoring or hating someone could be good too.

How so ?

And frankly ANY attitude whatsoever and any action could change the way someone thinks or behaves, ignoring or hating is nothing special... Hate blindes me just as much as joy or happiness.

Yes but joy and happiness have a positive effect as you will only respond to people in a positive way. It's like they say "Love is Blind"...when you love someone you don't see any "flaws" infact, you think all thier "flaws" are actually strengths and you love them AND thier "flaws"

Hate is ALSO BLIND....it makes you see ONLY the negative and disregard the positive. Again holding on to Hatred or Anger is very bad for your health. That kind of thing can result in cancer if you let it consume you. Please understand that.

Hate can only make you feel good for soo long..... [/B]

Hate, hate could give you a purpose to do something. Like out of hatred that your parents are always underestimating you, you will work as hard as you can to achieve something that will amaze me.

Any affection could have different effects on a person. Don't be so simple-minded to believe that "bad" feelings equals "bad" results or "good" feelings" equals to "good" results.

The flaw with hate is right at the beginning. Its not a "bad" feeling. Many people just use it improperly.

hate is a mixedamotion which can be positve on your life or negative on your life, i hate hateing somone but cant do anything about it like aboy in school was a jerk i hated him but couldnt do any thing to him, which got me angry ovioulsey

The "Law of Attraction" attracts things you think about..........If you dwell on hate, you will pull negative energies to yourself..........It's a universal law.....

Originally posted by debbiejo
The "Law of Attraction" attracts things you think about..........If you dwell on hate, you will pull negative energies to yourself..........It's a universal law.....

Originally posted by Eis
What are "negative energies"?

http://www.life-enthusiast.com/twilight/research_emoto.htm

This would also explain many unexplained phenominas with healings and such....It's not the religions. It's the power of intentions/belief.....

or you could google something like "law of attraction quantum physics"