Originally posted by immaturerainbowYou won the milestone! Grats.
I do need to eat, but I choose not to.Whatt? You don't like my pouty lips? They are naturally pouty though.
But really though, I don't like when people say I looked better. Or look better.
Let me look how I want to look because my happiness is more important than fitting what everyone wants.
I'm quite underweight actually, my face is actually pretty round for my size. But I don't complain about having a baby face because my parents both do and they look very young for their age.
It's comments like "You look better back then." or "Eat a burger" that I really tend to roll my eyes at. I've heard it all, and no one has yet to offer me a burger.
I was criticized and made fun of for being big, now I'm being talked down for being too skinny.
Sorry I can't fit peoples expectations. But I'm not trying to anymore, I have to fix the damage that has been done from years of trying to.
Originally posted by immaturerainbow
I do need to eat, but I choose not to.Whatt? You don't like my pouty lips? They are naturally pouty though.
But really though, I don't like when people say I looked better. Or look better.
Let me look how I want to look because my happiness is more important than fitting what everyone wants.
I think you look gorgoues and the fact that you are confident with yourself is pretty damn important
Originally posted by immaturerainbow
I'm quite underweight actually, my face is actually pretty round for my size. But I don't complain about having a baby face because my parents both do and they look very young for their age.It's comments like "You look better back then." or "Eat a burger" that I really tend to roll my eyes at. I've heard it all, and no one has yet to offer me a burger.
I was criticized and made fun of for being big, now I'm being talked down for being too skinny.
Sorry I can't fit peoples expectations. But I'm not trying to anymore, I have to fix the damage that has been done from years of trying to.
how about I shout you a burger if I am ever in amerieca, first I need to find quincy though
I'm not confident, honestly. I'm working on trying to be confident, but that's a part of recovery that will come in time.
If you want me to eat a burger though, and are willing to actually take me out for one, I'd be thankful and eat it.
Just because I have issues around food and body image doesn't mean I can't get myself out of my comfort zone and be thankful for something someone was nice enough to do for me.
Originally posted by Scribble
**** people's expectations anyway. And it's weird how even other women seem to have excessive expectations of women
society is like that, I went to a PhD student presentation about women in America and Islamic states, even the women can be very anti feminist or pro masculine in different affairs. it can be shocking