Originally posted by Snoopbert
Blaming anything and anyone [b]but the child? [/B]
depends on the age of the child. if they are taught correctly from a young age to make the correct choices then when they get to the age where they are capable of choosing they will make the right choices. all the time? no, of course not. as i said, there are other factors that play into it and making bad choices (despite KNOWING they are bad) is a part of growing and learning.
a child at the age where they can make decisions needs to have had a great deal of experience and modelling to show them the choices that are best and choices that can harm them or have harmful outcomes.
by blaming the child (especially a YOUNG child) are you claiming that some children are just inherently/born bad? 😕
Originally posted by BobbyD
...fat little bastard that's screaming on the floor in the next aisle overThat was great capt fantastic. 😂 Funny, but wrong.
Regarding your examples, does it really matter what child it is, or where their path takes them? I refuse to blame the child. Learning starts right from day 1 out of the womb into the catcher's glove being held by his father. The parents are most importantly, the individuals responsible for nurturing and raising their child. If it doesn't start there, that's when you have problems down the road.
That's a really great non-answer.